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Pregnancy - Desire or Accident?

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By Asher CrosbyPublished 4 years ago 3 min read
Pregnancy - Desire or Accident?
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This is an article about sex. It is not a guide to how to have a successful orgasm, nor to sexually transmitted diseases. We will talk about how you can get pregnant after a sex game without wanting to.

You will say that everyone knows something about contraceptive methods. However, more than half of the tasks are unintentional. Do you think that this happens only in the case of reckless teenagers? It also happens to women who have long since finished school and to those with higher education and large bank accounts.

Many older women lose their temper when it comes to sex

More than 60% of pregnancies in women between 20 and 24 years are accidental and for women between 30 and 35 years, the percentage is 30%. Many women get confused when it comes to making decisions about sex and pregnancy control.

Sometimes she has an abortion and feels better without regretting it. But abortion creates turmoil, anxiety, and feelings of violence and murder. Not all women can withstand this operation psychologically. Although abortion and childbirth are relatively risk-free these days, it's best not to get pregnant if you don't want to.

Women who accidentally conceive are more prone to depression during pregnancy. Even if they are married or single, they suffer. To get a baby off to a good start, it would be ideal for a woman to consult a doctor for prenatal care and proper dietary supplements.

Be very careful, an unwanted pregnancy can transmit to the child a hereditary disease that you would have learned about only if you had consulted a doctor.

A dangerous silence

The ultimate responsibility for preventing pregnancy remains in the hands of two people: the woman and her partner. However, sex education is deficient. In schools, young people do not have enough information about the means of preventing pregnancy and they will remain reckless even in adulthood.

Knowing that many people usually have sex before marriage, inadequate sex education for young people in high school means ignoring a social reality that later has dire consequences.

7 attitudes needed to prevent pregnancy

1. Campus information. Colleges and universities should offer a pregnancy prevention course for young people to take optionally and free of charge.

2. Sexology lessons for doctors. Young doctors graduating from medical school should understand every aspect of fertility and pregnancy control and be willing to talk about it with their patients.

3. Advice from the religious authority.

4. Better birth control. Pharmacies have introduced effective pills and injections, but women also need non-hormonal contraceptives.

5. State subsidized pills.

6. Emergency contraceptive pills (valid after intercourse).

7. Counseling young couples on sexual issues.

Do you think that unwanted pregnancies are just a problem for teenagers?

After you turn 20, there is no place like high school or college where you can learn how to avoid pregnancy. Strange as it may seem, some doctors, even gynecologists, are too busy or too proud to discuss pregnancy prevention: it seems too simple.

But it's not really like that. One in three women said her gynecologist did not mention birth control at the last visit. Very few women have heard of emergency contraception (a pill that can prevent pregnancy for up to three days after having sex) from a healthcare professional.

Uninspired decisions in bed

Many women believe that interrupting the "moment" to look for a condom in their bag would hurt their partner. Even when we know what is good to do, we choose what is bad when the light goes out. I heard all sorts of excuses like "I just said this time," "he said he was going to stop in time," "he said he couldn't stand a condom," "I didn't think we were going to have sex that night."

It would be good to get used to the idea that if you do not want to get pregnant you should start a contraceptive treatment. You may have to try several methods of contraception until you find the right one for your body, but you need motivation, discipline, responsibility, you will be better protected.

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