PARENTAL JEALOUSY

What is jealousy?

If we look at the word jealousy, it is some how related to fire, which means you are burning inside, that people are having better things than you. You are not happy with that, because you think you also deserve that happiness too. It is because you forget that having something doesn't makes you Happy, its just your energy. Happiness is something which is inside in you, you just have to find it.

Is Being Envious Fine?

Being envious is not about being good or bad, jealousy is a natural feeling and everyone feels jealous at times, which is justified. However constant repetition of feeling jealous, becomes a person's habit. In addition, people get so indulge in feeing jealous that they don't see how long they are taking this? which is a wrong deed.

PARENTAL JEALOUSY

Parental jealousy is the topic of discussion, feeling jealous about something that other people have and you don't have is reasonable. Even so, this is acceptable to certain point, but parental jealousy not acceptable in any case. Because if a person is not getting the benefits of something which he\she owns, which totally belongs to them. Parental jealousy is something which is born in a child's heart when he\she does not get their parent's enough love, care, respect and attention compared to their other siblings. Now this is a thing which is completely made up by parents into a child's heart. Its just like they are (parents) are same people, but difference is that your sibling is getting the best version of them and not you. And this hit you hard than anything else.

Yes, your children deserve your love, no matter how different they are from others\you. Your children are your responsibilities, not of others. If your child is socially active or good in academics, no doubt its all because of you...THANK YOU. On the other hand, if a child is socially not active, not good in academics, having depression and social anxiety, then congratulation its also because of you. And please accept it. You are not only making your child uncomfortable with you, but also with their siblings and every other person, who is around him\her. You have no idea what a parental jealousy does to your child, because if you had a little bit of idea about it, you would have never done that to your child.

NOTE TO PARENTS

WHY? your one child can't have the good version of you, that already your other children are having. Is he\she not your part. You don't know how, at sometimes you are making them unwanted\awkward. Don't you personally think that your left out child also deserves you. But sadly, you are the same person, with different versions of you, for your children. There is a world going out there, who is going to do same or even worst to your children, please don't start doing this immorality to your children this early. As they are going to face this in their future.Let's not start from home. If you are not going to cooperate with your kids, then who is going to do that? If you being parents are bothering your children, then what do you accept from them in return? I understand there are kids, who are sober, while there are kids who are naughty. So what do you think, which one of those kids make you a Parent, the sober one or the naughty one? The answer is the naughty kid because he makes you learn new things, he basically teaches you how to become a parent, as you (parent) have to take more and more care of that kid. Whereas, the sober kid is already organized so you don't have to put much effort 0n this kid. This does not mean you should start comparison between these two kids, as everyone is different from one another.