Love is like a long stream of water

I remember there was a popular saying on the Internet: "Love at first sight is not love, it's just a good impression." True love often begins with good impression, respect for talent, and loyalty to character.

I met him that summer. At first sight, I was attracted by his gentle smile. His speech is extraordinary, funny and humorous, and every smile seems to be hidden in poetry. Talking to him can always collide sparks of thought. His talent, like a firefly in the night, illuminates my world.

I still remember clearly that we attended a literary salon together that day. He talked freely on the stage, and his views on literature were unique and profound. My heart quietly rippled. At that moment, I realized that the feeling of being moved was so wonderful. His appearance gave me the courage to further interact with him. From then on, I began to look forward to every chance encounter with him, began to quietly look for his figure, and began to rejoice at his concern. We began to discuss literature together, taste poems, and exchange each other's life insights. In the process, I gradually found that he was not only talented, but also had a kind and noble heart. I remember that once we went to the welfare home to volunteer together. Seeing him patiently chatting with the lonely old man, and his cheerful smile playing with the children, a warm current surged in my heart. At that moment, I had a little deeper respect and affection for him.

However, I also understand that liking is just the beginning of love, which is not equivalent to love itself. Love needs to stand the test of time and manage each other with heart. Therefore, I began to pay more attention to his speech and behavior, trying to find his way of being a human being from it. I found that he treats people sincerely and does what he says; he respects the elderly and loves the young, and is filial to his parents; he is diligent and progressive and does not want to be mediocre. Gradually, my respect for him became deeper and deeper, and my good impression gradually sublimated into a deeper emotion. I know, I met someone who deserves to be entrusted for a lifetime.

Love has always been the result of water. From a good impression at a glance, to admiration due to appreciation, to trust and dependence truly based on character, a gradual process is needed. As Roman Roland said, "Love either makes people grow or corrupt. Growing up love is happy and beautiful, but depraved love is terrible.When you meet the person who moves your heart, you might as well give yourself a chance to get to know him, appreciate him, and discover his bright spots. But at the same time, remember not to be carried away by a momentary favor, and learn to look at feelings rationally. Only by judging words first, then respecting talents, and finally examining character can we gain a healthy and beautiful relationship. Love is never a vigorous opening, but a process of thin water and long flow. It requires us to build a foundation with appreciation, resolve contradictions with tolerance, and build long-term with trust. As Tagore said, "Love is not two people staring at each other, but looking in the same direction together." Only by working hand in hand and achieving each other can the flower of love always bloom.

I believe that when a person's heart is rich enough, love will come as promised. Therefore, if you are waiting for love, you should learn to cultivate your inner self and improve your ideological realm. Only a growing soul is worthy of a beautiful love.

At the end, I give you my heartfelt blessings. You can be treated gently by the world and can also be rewarded with songs.