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Forever grateful.
Hey guys! This is so new for me, you know I never thought I would find myself writing a blog for everyone to see, but here I am, ready to share all my life experiences, all my dreams, admirations, adventures and just basic tips and advice for people going through similar incidents I have encountered.
By Rosa Sousa5 years ago in Families
Rediscovering Myself after Becoming a Parent
I embraced my youth I enjoyed my twenties to the maximum capacity as one should when you are young wild and free. When Joe and I had decided to settle down I knew my life would change. It would change forever and in all the best ways! But with becoming a parent comes it challenges.
By Allyson Kieszkowski5 years ago in Families
I was just thinking
Have you ever had one of those days, when you think I'm a terrible mom? Well today was that day. MY three year old was giving me a lot of trouble because I'm in the process of trying to potty train and it's been very difficult and I got so mad that I yelled at her. Of course she didn't understand why I was upset but I felt so bad that I broke down in tears and was thinking How could i get mad at my child who doesn't understand the concept and she of course noticed and sat on my lap and was trying to console me. I know I'm not the only parent in the world who has gotten mad at their child but i really should be more patient with her and understanding because she's not like other kids, of course foolish me reads these stupid parenting blogs and books about how you child should be a what stage they should be in at their age range. But the reality is that she's not like everyone else and that she's her own unique person, I did just recently figure this out on my own and it took me a little bit to realize it. So I'm telling you that the best way to parent is the way you feel is best because no book or blog can tell you what's to be expected, it's a learning game and in my case it's a little bit more difficult because my husband has autism or is on the spectrum so to speak, it's gone on his whole life but his parents my in-laws refused to notice and get him tested. So as a result it's very difficult to handle at times and I recently have gotten concerned about my daughter maybe having it, but the doctors have said she shows no signs which is a good thing. But however she does have speech problems and maybe other issues that need addressed, Now the books and other crap out there doesn't tell you that or how to handle it. So in my case I have to completely change my whole parenting style, needless to say yes I felt like a horrible person for getting mad at my child with issues and I know I'm not the only one. If you feel that makes you a bad parent it doesn't because we are still human and make mistakes, I just hope for her and my other daughter that I just had 5 month ago turn out to be better versions of my self. So hang in there it'll get better especially with a lot of prayer because lord knows we all need it. Because if i could help any other mom's struggling with this same issue just remember your not alone, because I do feel alone most of the time and it's a terrible feeling. I know that as mom's we need to bring each other up and be supportive not teardown or question. As mothers we can show love and patience in stead of violence and yelling, maybe even encourage dad's to do it to.
By Rachel Corbin5 years ago in Families
Should Men and Women Have Designated Household Responsibilities In 2020?
While we all know that traditionally women stayed home and took care of the house and children, everything has been turned on its head. Especially during COVID-19, with both partners at home, roles are shifting. Even before the pandemic, it became necessary for women to work full time in most households.
By Kari Oakley5 years ago in Families
Insight from a New Mom during a very Real Pandemic
We waited. We had always wanted to be together and start a family even in early the years of our relationship. But, we knew the we wanted to make sure we were ready for emotional and financial responsibility of what it truly entails in becoming a parent.
By Allyson Kieszkowski5 years ago in Families
Raised by the White Is Right Campaign
Raised by the White is Write Campaign For years I have badgered my brother about letting go of the torment caused by our parents but I am here writing about them. In the current climate, I have rooted out an underlying problem. I discovered festering wounds that I am in denial about. I can finally see how my parents’ self-hate shaped my entire life. Their beliefs determined who I hung out with, where I went to school, and what activities I did.
By Auntie Becky5 years ago in Families
The Great Aunt Loes
It was early March 2020, about one week into the CV-19 lockdown, when I heard the news of my Great Aunt's passing. She was indeed, at 104 years old, more than ready, and had lived her life to the fullest extent. She passed peacefully in her sleep, surrounded by those nearest and dearest. How apropos, for she was more than deserving to not suffer long. I cannot imagine a kinder, gentler spirit, which shone where ever she went. She herself had never married or had children of her own, but was a great aunt to over fifty, and a great great aunt to dozens more. For most of her life she lived with her sister, my Oma, Henriette, and brother-in-law, my Opa, Corniellius. A temporary visit to England from her native Holland at the start of the occupation, led to an unexpected, permanent stay. She was employed as a bookkeeper for Rodwell Nursery, my Opa's expansive horticulatural business. She also became a tremenoudous support for my Oma, who mothered eight children. Loes outlived both Cornelius, who passed in 1988, and Henriette, who passed in 1996. I once asked her what her secret to longevity was, and without hesitation declared "never getting married", with a smile.
By The Social Nutritionist 5 years ago in Families
3 Fun Activities You Can Do With the Whole Family!
3 Fun Activities You Can Do With the Whole Family! Image: Envato It can be difficult to come up with an activity that the whole family can enjoy together, especially if your kids are getting older. Here are a few tried and true fun-filled activities that everyone will absolutely love!
By Maggie Bloom5 years ago in Families
How Santa Made Christmas A Day To Remember
On this occasion of joy and happiness, everyone has so much on their minds, and everyone is looking forward to celebrating more events with family and friends. Anyways, Christmas is around the corner, and people are deciding what to do for Christmas this year. With all of the different responsibilities over Santa, we need to acknowledge that he has high importance on Christmas. On the day of 25th December, kids wait to receive gifts from Santa, and they are fully convinced that they will receive amazing gifts and treats from Santa Claus if they behave throughout the year. These small things make Christmas an event that has so much importance around the globe.
By Robert Albert5 years ago in Families
