Jealousy In Relationship

I've already helped the world understand jealousy and self-esteem. I want to clear up any misunderstandings that may have some male people thinking that I am targeting only women here. Both men and women can be imprisoned by envy and self-esteem difficulties. Nobody is exempt from experiencing genuine human emotions. Face, color, size, or gender are irrelevant to emotions. Here, there are actually two victims, not just one.

I also believe that I should have mentioned how the other person in a relationship that is plagued by envy or self-esteem problems also suffers.

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A partnership is a relationship. It is a promise made between two people that we will support one another no matter what. Unfortunately, both parties are impacted when there is a jealousy issue. More often than the other person who is in the firing line, we prefer to concentrate on the one who is ensnared in the prison of anxiety. This is partially because we need to free that side before we can assist in the healing of the other.

Well, I am now going to share that person's prison of hell as well.

One cannot endure the agony and pain of being blamed and mistrusted by the one they love for a very long period. At some point, they either leave or rise up and beg you, the attacker, to stop and pay attention to what you are saying and accuse them of it.

They make a sincere effort to reassure you that they do love you and that they are not pining after or having an interest in anybody else. They run the risk of being attacked more to defend themselves when they try to convince you that it's all in your head. Undoubtedly, it is a vicious circle.

They develop the delusional belief that you already believe they have betrayed you in some way, regardless of where they are. They watch for the other foot to step. Sometimes it drops right away, other times it takes a few days. However, they still have to wait and wait for it to drop. They worry that this time they won't be able to say what has to be said. With what they say to us, they worry that we will become even more unhappy and illogical. They start to feel as though they are "damned if they do, and damned if they don't." Personally, I detest the sensation. I want to flee faster than Forrest Gump at the thought of me putting someone in that situation.

They can feel your feelings of being imprisoned in your uncertainty just as clearly as they can feel the neglect you inflicted on that individual through your envious insecurities. There are various reasons why envy develops inside people, but the innocent ones who never actually do anything to cause you to feel that fear are the true victims. Please keep in mind the other person who is there with you once you've reached the stage where you can recognize your problems and start dealing with them. They also require special consideration because they have experienced your anguish and concerns alongside you. Although they hurt in a very different way, they still do.

There are so many positive aspects of life that jealousy may ruin. Through you, it kills the one thing you truly love and has the power to ruin our mate. The worst part is that you approve of it. You have to stop. Would you shoot your partner with a gun? NOT!! What is so valuable to you that you would let this emotion to torture it, then? I'll say it again: Please consider your partner's pain at being mistrusted as long as they are not to blame for your anxieties or if they have apologized and are making efforts to make things right. They break down when they witness your suffering and are informed that it is all their fault.

Your partner loves you just as much as you love them, so the idea that they are to blame for your pent-up emotions makes them sick to their stomach. They feel good about themselves since they are the ones who made you smile and feel completely appreciated. Overall, I have a good feeling about that.

Be careful not to develop the behavior of being dissatisfied due to feelings of jealousy. Identify with their perspective. Are you making them the focus of your attention? Once more, the incorrect kind of focus. Talk to your partner if you feel you are not receiving the proper attention.

Do not let your feelings of jealousy take over and obscure what you are trying to express. Negative sentiments might enter your mind directly through any mental weakness. Once they arrive, they start working swiftly to bring you down. So pay attention to how you are feeling.

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I'd like to think that I've at least sparked some ideas in your heads about what else might be going on in a jealousy-filled relationship. Both sides are equally targeted for destruction and murder. More often, we need to LIVE, LOVE and LAUGH together. Oh and let's not forget my favorite thing to do…HUGGGGGG!!!!

One thought from my heart to yours:

Say this out loud:

“I am always ready to risks.

I am always ready to learn.

I am always ready to test my strength, and so I put my worries aside and just live!”