Is strict parenting good??
My take on strict parenting
Once upon a time, there was a family with two young children, a boy and a girl. The parents were both very strict and had high expectations for their children. They believed that strict parenting was the best way to ensure their children's success in life.
From a young age, the children were not allowed to watch TV, play video games, or have any other form of entertainment. Their parents believed that these activities were a waste of time and would distract them from their studies. Instead, the children were expected to spend their free time reading books, practicing their musical instruments, or doing other educational activities.
The children's schedule was also very strict. They had to wake up at 5 am every day, and their day was planned out in 30-minute increments. They had set times for breakfast, schoolwork, extracurricular activities, and even free time. Their parents believed that structure and routine were essential for success.
The parents were also very strict when it came to grades. They expected nothing less than perfect grades from their children and would punish them severely if they didn't meet their expectations. The children were not allowed to participate in any activities or social events until their grades were up to their parents' standards.
The boy and girl both felt trapped in their strict environment. They longed to watch TV, play with their friends, and just have some fun. But they knew that their parents would not tolerate any disobedience. They feared their parents' wrath and the consequences of breaking the rules.
As they grew older, the children began to rebel against their parents' strict rules. They would sneak out of the house to hang out with their friends or watch TV when their parents were not home. They started to lie to their parents about their grades and activities, fearing the punishment they would receive if they were honest.
The parents soon found out about their children's disobedience and were furious. They punished them severely, taking away all their privileges and grounding them for months. The children felt betrayed by their parents' strictness and their lack of trust in them.
The strict parenting had taken a toll on the family's relationship. The children felt that their parents didn't understand them, and the parents felt that their children were ungrateful and disobedient. They were all unhappy and felt disconnected from each other.
One day, the children decided to talk to their parents about how they felt. They explained that they felt suffocated by their strict environment and that they needed more freedom to grow and learn from their mistakes. They also expressed their desire to have a more open and trusting relationship with their parents.
Their parents listened to their children's concerns and realized that their strict parenting had not brought the desired results. They realized that their children needed some freedom and trust to develop their personalities and make their own decisions. They also acknowledged that their strict parenting had damaged their relationship with their children.
From that day on, the parents decided to loosen their strict rules and give their children more freedom. They allowed them to watch TV, play with their friends, and participate in social activities. They also started to trust their children more and allowed them to make their own decisions.
The children were overjoyed by the change in their parents' behavior. They felt that their parents finally understood them and trusted them. They started to work harder in school and were motivated to succeed on their own, without the pressure of their parents' strict rules.
The family's relationship improved drastically, and they became closer than ever before. The parents realized that strict parenting was not the only way to ensure their children's success in life. They learned that trust, understanding, and a healthy balance of freedom and discipline were essential for a happy and successful family.
In conclusion, strict parenting can have both positive and negative effects on children. While it may



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