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HOW TO MAKE FRIENDS WITH ANYONE EASILY

Making friends

By Wallace Esua MbahPublished 2 years ago 2 min read
HOW TO MAKE FRIENDS WITH ANYONE EASILY
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Greetings, everyone.

Allow me to begin with a query.

By a show of hands, how many among you share familiarity with the individual seated beside you from prior encounters?

Fascinating.

Now, reflect for a moment: Can you recall the initial exchange you engaged in with said individual?

Consider this: dialogues serve as the bonds that unite us.

Visualize each conversation akin to a delicate metal link; with every encounter, a new connection is forged.

Every subsequent interaction fortifies this bond until collectively, we have woven a vast tapestry of communication—a World Wide Web, if you will.

A catchy term, isn't it? But at its core, it encapsulates the essence of dialogue—a profound and transformative force.

Conversations, in essence, are journeys. They grant us fresh perspectives and unveil unexplored avenues.

They possess the power to foster harmony or sow discord, ultimately shaping our collective identity as a species.

Consider this: every significant individual in your life was once a stranger.

Their stories remained untold until you dared to initiate that first conversation.

Hence, I implore you: Embrace the unfamiliar; engage in dialogue.

And here's how—seven simple strategies to initiate conversations with almost anyone.

As a radio presenter, I derive immense joy from conversing with diverse individuals.

My routine entails stepping into an empty studio, donning a microphone, and conversing with an unseen audience of 1.6 million listeners.

Yet, the challenge lies in time constraints. Amidst a four-hour show, I must captivate you within a mere twenty-minute window.

How does one establish rapport under such constraints? How does one forge a connection without visual cues?

Allow me to share insights garnered from nine years of radio experience.

Strangers abound, each presenting an opportunity for enrichment and discovery.

Contrary to conventional wisdom, I advocate for engaging with strangers—each encounter harbors the potential for enlightenment and growth.

Consider the moment you lock eyes with a stranger across the room—an urge to converse arises, yet apprehension stifles your words.

Here's a simple remedy: Speak. Initiate dialogue.

A single word serves as the catalyst for a cascade of conversation.

Start with a simple greeting— a "Hi," a "Hey," or a "Hello."

Channel your enthusiasm, wear a genuine smile, and extend that initial greeting.

Now, I understand the discomfort this may evoke. Yet, consider this—every stranger represents an opportunity for connection, an avenue for discovery.

Time constraints pose a challenge—ninety seconds on air demand impactful conversations.

So, bypass superficial exchanges; delve into personal queries.

Strive to uncover unique anecdotes and insights—each conversation a testament to the richness of human experience.

And remember, listening is key.

Authentic engagement necessitates active listening—genuine interest begets meaningful dialogue.

In summary, seize the opportunity to converse with strangers. Discover the common ground, exchange opinions, and pay homage to the intricacies of human interaction.

And remember, a conversation is akin to reading a captivating tale—a journey of discovery and connection.

In a world inundated with fleeting interactions, let us aspire to delve deeper, to cherish the richness of human connection.

Thank you.

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About the Creator

Wallace Esua Mbah

Wallace Esua: Writer with six years' experience crafting captivating stories across genres. From fiction to journalism, I evoke emotions and provoke thought through my words. Currently engrossed in a novel and freelance projects.

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