How to make a high-quality marriage

When many couples first get married, they are as close to each other as possible. But over time, especially after having children, the relationship seems to deteriorate. They began to fight with each other over minor issues.

Later, the couple stopped quarreling and both kept silent. Outsiders see this as a good thing. In fact, under the calm surface, the undercurrent is turbulent.

It may not be long before they quietly divorce. Outsiders don't understand why: aren't you living well? Don't quarrel or fight, how can you leave?

Rome was not built in a day, from the breakup of the relationship to the end, which must have not known to outsiders cold things.

Whether a man is trustworthy or not depends on his independence. If a man is obedient to his parents, will your husband favor you when there is conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in the future marriage?

Many relationships deteriorate from the cold, even if the relationship is good, the relationship is sweet, the quality of the marriage will gradually decline.

When a woman is most vulnerable and in need of help and comfort, as the closest husband, she does not help her and care for her, but says something that makes her cold. Then no matter how good the relationship is, it's going to be stiff.

When a woman gives birth, it is the most vulnerable time for a woman, and it is also the time when a woman can see her relationship with her in-laws most clearly.

There was no sudden divorce, only pent-up discontent. The deterioration of the relationship does not happen overnight, but is the result of a long backlog. One is eager, but the other is not giving, their hearts can not connect together, how should feel each other's temperature?

If you look around, happy marriages, good marriages, are about warmth and understanding each other's needs. What one party needs, one party will try to give, rather than blame, naysayers.

There is no secret to staying married, if there is one, it is probably to have her in your heart.

Long distance love believe that everyone has, the kind of miss, the use of the network, with typing, with video, with sound to maintain the two sides of the relationship, some passions will be amplified.

From the male perspective, although is different, also need to often meet, meet communication scheme, according to the distance of 500 km of high-speed rail around three hours, you can see a half month, longer distance can meet once a month, the middle distance, or the two sides meet see reality is really have a sense of security.

The second point is to care more about each other, think more about each other, whether on the phone or met, to show more care for her, let her know that you are a trustworthy person, know your character, will not do something out of line. Greeting and caring ah, see delicious fun will want to bring her ah, she occupies an important place in your heart.

The third point, can't meet day, boys are more active chat with girls, reported to the their whereabouts at any time, share of daily life, such as I go to play, I go to and brother go out to dinner, see fun interesting to share with her, helped granny crossing the road, for example, the stray cats home, etc., let her know that even if not, she is a part of you to participate in life.

Fourth, get to know each other more communication ideas, know what she because of bad mood, listen to her over there the joys and sorrows, do a listener, to let her know how you are behind, more calm, take care of her little mood, can give a dot small rewards, occasionally little surprise, send you some meaningful gifts, people can't see, carefully selected gifts can also be slightly offset some thoughts. Let her know that you're thinking about her all the time and giving her everything you can.