Genuine romance or visually impaired fascination

Yet there is so little true, genuine, devoted, pure love. This precious article is much sought after and rare

Love is a plant of divine origin that must be nurtured and cultivated. Families in which affection is shown, which speak trustworthy, loving words, will be happy and exert an uplifting influence on all with whom they come in contact.

Love ... is not without reason; it is not blind. It is pure and holy. But the passion of earthly nature is quite different. While true love has God in view in all His plans, and is in perfect harmony with the Spirit of God, passion is stubborn to the core, reckless, unreasoning, unrestrained, and makes an idol of the object of its choice. God's grace is visible in the whole conduct of one who possesses true love. Modesty, simplicity, sincerity, morality and spirituality will characterize every step taken towards the covenant of marriage. Those who are such will not be overwhelmed by the society of the other, losing interest in the place of prayer and religious services. Their zeal for truth will not cease by neglecting the opportunities and privileges that God graciously gives.

That love which has no other foundation than the satisfaction of the senses will be stubborn, blind and uncontrollable. Honesty, truth, and every noble trait of the mind, will all be brought under the dominion of the passions. The person who is bound in the chains of this blind passion is too often deaf to the voice of reason and conscience; no argument or persistent entreaty can induce him to see the folly of this race.

True love is not unrestrained passion, fierce and unbridled. On the contrary, it is calm and deep in its nature. It is concerned with more than (outward) appearances and is attracted only by qualities. She is wise and discerning, and her devotion is real and lasting.

Be careful with wistfulness as of disease - You should be careful with minds and debilitated nostalgia as of uncleanliness. Numerous young fellows and ladies in these times don't know righteousness; thusly there is extraordinary requirement for caution.... Those of prudent person, however they might miss the mark on characteristics which are attractive, might be of genuine moral worth.

There are people who have for a period made a calling of religion, however who are without God and without a reasonable still, small voice in the entirety of their goals and purposes. They are useless, unserious; their discussion is effortless. Their psyches are involved exclusively with the prospect of romance and marriage, there being no space for high and respectable contemplations.

Youngsters are enchanted, entranced by the madness of romance and marriage. Wiped out wistfulness wins. Extraordinary cautiousness and civility are expected to shield youngsters from these malicious impacts.

Advice for a young romantic, lovesick girl

- You have fallen into the sad mistake that is so prevalent in this degenerate century, especially among women. You're too preoccupied with the other sex. You like their society. The attention you give them flatters them, and you encourage or indulge a familiarity that is not always in accord with the apostle's exhortation, "Beware of anything that seems evil."

Put romantic plans out of your mind. You mix religion with a sickly, romantic sentimentality that does not uplift but, on the contrary, demeans. It is not only you yourself who are affected; others are also harmed by your example and influence. You have lost your usefulness by being in a continual reverie and building sandcastles. You have lived in an imaginary world; you have been an imaginary martyr and an imaginary Christian.

The religious experience of young people in this age of the world is much mixed up with this vile sentimentality. My sister, God demands that you be transformed. Ennoble your sentiment, I beg you. Devote your mental and physical powers to the service of your Redeemer, who has paid for you. Sanctify your thoughts and feelings, so that all your deeds may be done in the Lord.

Warning for a young student

- If you are now in your student years; let your mind dwell on spiritual subjects. Remove all sentimentality from your life. Train yourself vigilantly and be self-controlled. You are now in the period of character formation; let not your interest - the noblest possible - in preparing for the work God has appointed for you, wane.

The consequences of unwise courtship and marriage - We can see how many difficulties we encounter at every step. Unrighteousness - in young and old alike; unwise, unholy courtships and marriages cannot fail to result in quarrels, misunderstandings, estrangement from one another, indulgence of unrestrained passions, unfaithfulness of husbands and wives, selfishness, foolish desires, and indifference to things of eternal interest....

Guard your feelings

- Curb your mind's thighs, then restrain your thoughts, not allowing them to go unchecked. Thoughts can be guarded and restrained by your determined efforts. Think righteous thoughts and you will bring righteous actions to fruition. Then you will have to guard your feelings, not letting them linger over the wrong things. Jesus has redeemed you with His own life; you belong to Him; therefore He must be consulted in all things as to how the powers of your mind and feelings will be used.

Love is a precious gift

Passion is counted as love

Love must be nurtured and cultivated.

Nadine Piat has a clear mission - to inspire women to free themselves from the shackles of painful love and love with ease from the heart.She is the creator of "Hete althy You Healthy Love" and has 4 top online programs that teach women how to effortlessly captivate the best men, cultivate soulful love, experience bonding and healing physical intimacy, and live a life filled with inner joy and unshakable confidence.

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