Father’s hope

Fathers as we know has a whole lot of meaning to different folks. Some very pleasant, some painful and some just about disgusting. All in all we came into this world through them, be it by donations, inserting or by love. A father works in different ways whether we accept it or not. But it’s a know fact that bringing up a child to build a better sense of independence we need a father figure around to play their own role.

My dad was one that never showed much of love but is always paying attention to everything or moves. I’m proud to grow under my both parents. Being a dad is more than just showing up for events or providing the basic family needs. It takes you as a person, your time, attention, finances, love, real input and answering questions when thrown at you.

Life is a unique system of up’s and downs, joy and pains, happiness and mourning as we watch loved ones lowered into Mother Earth or Locked up for crimes committed or not. We all have our different perceptives of our dad’s. This book of father’s hope are for things spoken, unspoken, prayers from the hearts and those wished for. It’s just much that some even commit suicide cause of the out play of events all around them.

Pressure from work, family, friends, society, community, dreams and yarnings of a beautiful, better days that just never seem to come. Truthfully we can all relate to these happenings. In all of these things there is still that hope that it’s all going to be fine event when it seems not so. Father’s hope for the best even at the worst of moments or times. Being afraid of spouse leaving at some point, losing a job or contract, kids going out their safety and well-being, being a hero even at zero.

Folks giving up on you or someone just trying to put you down for just no cause of yours or pure envy just seeing you show up for work.

Father’s are one hopeful sons of a sons that we all come across. They come in packages, yours might be the mechanise dad, an electronic or electric dad, some the handy chap around the house or the transporter maybe even the doctor next room. A teacher or tutor that even explains better than your teacher. Some push us so bad that we wish they never existed only later to discover it was for our betterment and future benefits.

Some see the good in father’s while some hold unto the hurts or mistakes that are made along the course of upbringing.

Father’s are unique and special in a thousand ways anyone or being can imagine, yes they have their short comings or falls but still doesn’t take out the good in them. Knowing that lots of them wouldn’t be around to witness their most pride gifts turn or grow into the dreams of their lives. Seeing your child passing through school or getting that degree, walking down the isles, becoming a community intervener or promoting unity. Seeing them have their own kids and knowing you did good in keeping them safe as they run on their own.