Families with daughters may be more worried than those with boys?

As the country's economy continues to develop, the economic pressure on many families has become very high, mainly because the cost of living in society has become higher and higher, and many families are facing the pressure of raising children. In the past, many families liked to have boys but now many families like to have girls, because, for these families with boys, many people think that the future needs to face living expenses will be larger, after all, many boys in adulthood will face the problem of buying a house and a car, and now, many marital relationships are closely linked to the house, car.

In the eyes of many people, a boy's family more than a girl's family needs to face a greater burden, but girls wait until girls step into society after the existence of relatively small expenses. But now there are a lot of netizens who said the next 20 years, for those who have a daughter's family encountered trouble things, more than the boy's family, why these netizens will say so?

Whether it is the birth of a boy or a girl, the problems faced in terms of parenting are very much, if the birth of a daughter, wait until the daughter becomes an adult, indeed, in all aspects of the cost has been reduced. But there will be very many problems, which is the current trend of our population, many families who have raised girls will face these three aspects of the trouble, see if you feel the same way.

The first is the problem of distant marriage

With the growth of age, many parents are also aging, and many girls in the marriage, will live in the male family, especially now many girls are more independent, coupled with the Internet being more and more developed, many girls in the field after meeting the male, it is also easy to appear far from the marriage. Especially now the population is more mobile, so many girls will also choose to live outside the province, and in this case, many girls' parents are in a state of no one to retire.

For many boys, it will take very much time and energy to get married, and also very much financial resources, so it is relatively difficult for both parents to take care of. After many girls marry far away, the number of times to return to the mother's family will become very little, if it is an only child family, married far away from the case, these families with girls, will encounter very difficult problems.

The second is that many girls are very vulnerable to bullying

This is why many families now prefer to have boys rather than girls, because many girls are in a vulnerable party, if there is a violent conflict, it is very easy to make these girls will be bullied. In addition, many families for girls are very important, long-term coddling state, it is very easy to make many girls in the time of bullying, unable to resist.

Especially now, with the rapid development of the Internet, people know more and more about the outside world, many people will often see on the Internet some men in post-marital violence against women in the news, so many women in marriage relationship is not protected, plus many women's physical strength is relatively weak, to resist is very difficult, so if there are girls in the family, but also very easy to encounter The third is the cost of raising a girl.

The third is that the cost of raising a girl is relatively high. Because the country's economy is constantly developing, many people's income levels have also increased significantly, coupled with the cost of living has also increased significantly, although many families have certain differences in the standards of raising boys and girls, the vast majority of girl families pay more in terms of financial resources.

Especially now, many parents are adhering to the concept of poor children rich children, so many girls need to learn a variety of talent skills, so that in the future development, there is a better way out, therefore, most families with girls, in terms of financial payments is relatively more

In addition, many girls now have a dowry when they get married, often accompanied by more items are more, so it also costs a lot of money. Even some parents with better economic conditions will also be through the purchase of a house as a dowry, so many girls' families need to pay more, and bear more difficulties, but, whether it is raising a boy or raising a child, is not very easy, of course, it depends on the way to raise.