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Do Men Really Want What They Say They Want?

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By Thabiso.MPublished 3 years ago 5 min read

Do men really want what they say they want? It's an age-old question that many have pondered, and the answer isn't always straightforward. In this blog post, we'll explore the different desires men may have, and how those desires may differ from what they actually say they want. We'll delve into the complexities of male psychology, and look at the role of societal norms in shaping what men say they want. With a better understanding of what drives men, we can gain insight into the true nature of their desires.

  • The answer may surprise you
  • When it comes to what men really want, there is often a lot of misunderstanding and confusion. While some men may have more traditional values and view sex as the ultimate goal, there is much more to what men really desire than just a physical relationship. The answer may surprise you, but men want to be respected, to feel needed and appreciated.

While sex can be an important part of any relationship, it isn't necessarily the most important thing for men. Men want to be respected for their opinions and actions. They want to know that their partner values and appreciates them for who they are.

Men also want to feel needed and appreciated. They want to feel like they are an integral part of the relationship and that their presence and input are valuable. Feeling needed and appreciated is a sign of respect and makes them feel valued and secure.

Finally, men want to be heard. They want to feel like their opinions are respected and that their partners are genuinely interested in what they have to say. This can be difficult for many couples, as communication can sometimes be a challenge. However, if couples make an effort to truly listen to one another, it can help create a strong connection between them.

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  • There is more to it than just sex

When it comes to what men really want, it's easy to assume that it's all about sex. After all, movies, television shows and books often portray men as only being interested in one thing. However, when it comes to the real world, things are a lot more complicated.

Men want emotional and physical intimacy in relationships, not just sexual pleasure. Men want to feel valued, respected, and appreciated by their partners. It's true that many men do desire physical intimacy, but they also crave the emotional connection that comes along with it.

Men also want to feel secure and safe in their relationships. They want to know that their partner trusts them and will stand by them even when times get tough. Men need to be reassured that they are loved and accepted, and that their partner will be there to support them.

In short, men want more than just sex from relationships. They want emotional and physical intimacy, respect, security, and appreciation. It is important for couples to take time to understand each other and talk about what each partner truly needs in order to build a lasting and loving relationship.

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  • Men want respect
  • When it comes to what men want, one of the most important things is respect. Men want to know that they are respected in a relationship and in society. Respect means listening to their opinions, not belittling them, and being honest with them. They want to feel like their contributions matter and that their opinions are valued.

Men also want to be respected for who they are as a person; for their individual quirks, beliefs, and preferences. They don't want to feel like their views are being ignored or invalidated. Respect should be given to a man regardless of whether you agree with his views or not.

Finally, men want respect from their partners in relationships. They don't want to be taken for granted and they don't want to feel like they're always competing for their partner's attention and affection. Respect includes allowing him to make his own decisions, being loyal, and being supportive. It means treating him with dignity and not trying to change who he is.

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  • Men want to feel needed
  • Most men want to feel like their presence is needed and appreciated. They want to know that they are important and that they make a difference. Being needed is not just about being the breadwinner or providing financially. It’s about being an active participant in the relationship. Men want to contribute in a meaningful way to the home, family, or relationship they are part of. This can be anything from helping with housework or taking care of the kids, to being an active listener or providing emotional support. Feeling needed gives a sense of purpose and helps to build self-esteem. Men are more likely to stay invested in a relationship when they feel needed, so it’s important for partners to make sure they express their appreciation for all their partner does.

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  • Men want to feel appreciated
  • Men have a deep-seated need to feel appreciated. When a man feels appreciated, he will feel respected and valued. Appreciation for a man can come in many forms, from a simple thank you for his efforts to praise for a job well done. Whether it’s a small gesture or a grand gesture, men need to know that their hard work and effort are noticed and appreciated.

When you appreciate your partner, you make him feel important and valued. Try to find little ways to show your appreciation every day – say thank you when he helps out with chores, give him compliments on the way he dresses, or bring him his favorite treat when he’s feeling down. Even the smallest show of appreciation can make a huge difference.

When men feel appreciated, they become more confident in themselves and in their relationship. Showing appreciation is not only beneficial for him, but also for your relationship. Being appreciated boosts your partner's morale and helps him to stay motivated in the relationship. Men want to feel like they matter and that their contribution to the relationship is valued. When you show your appreciation, it makes him feel special and loved.

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