15-year-old girl infected with 6 types of HPV

In the process of raising children, "adolescence" is a headache for countless parents, this period of children's minds are not fully mature, but the heart is very eager to be independent, so the parents of adolescent students are most afraid to encounter two situations is the child early love and rebellion.

For this problem, since girls are often more vulnerable in their relationships, parents of girls also show more anxiety than parents of boys.

There is this video from a hospital clinic online that many parents watch and then cry out for heart pounding, and things like this are just the tip of the iceberg of real-life adolescent problems in girls.

15-year-old girl infected with six kinds of HPV, the doctor a sentence to wake up countless parents

The girl is from Beijing, 15 years old with 1 meter 7 tall, her family is good, and her face is also very high, but behind such good external conditions, is the reality that she has dropped out of school for 3 years.

What's more surprising is that the girl suffers from a serious gynecological disease, and after a doctor's examination, she was successively infected with as many as six types of the HPV virus.

The girl came to the hospital a year ago because of abdominal pain, and treatment was started after the virus was detected, but the girl did not get better during this period and eventually developed cervical lesions.

Fearing that her daughter's gynecological disease will worsen down the road, her mother anxiously took her daughter to a gynecologist, talking about her daughter's current situation made her mother heartbroken and in tears.

In the consultation room, the doctor gave textbook persuasion to the flower girl.

She first praised the girl's beautiful appearance and then told the girl that no matter what stage of life, a women's inner abundance is always much more important than a beautiful exterior, when young, you can waste your youth with your appearance, but after a certain age, you will know that their choices are not only fruitless but also spoil the health.

And for the girl to be able to stop in time, the doctor said frankly that everyone has their interest in the subject, many children are bored with school because their parents want them to do all-round talent this society does not need all-round talent, efforts to learn their good subjects will be able to gain.

The doctor said he would try his best to cure the girl, but the premise is that the girl should promise herself to return to school as soon as possible, return to the classroom, and not choose to drop out of school at a young age. Finally, a pact was established between the doctor and the girl: I will give you the negative report card, and you will bring me the admission letter.

The words brought the girl's mother to tears, and the girl eventually nodded her head in agreement.

This video has touched countless parents of adolescent girls on the Internet, and while we all praise the conscientious doctor, we also began to seriously think: in the face of children's rebellion, how parents should get along with it?

Parents should give their children a sense of security when raising girls

In contrast to boys, girls tend to be more sensitive and fragile, so raising girls, parents should give their children a sense of security, where the sense of security is not only material satisfaction but also spiritual fit and empathy.

When a child can draw a great sense of security and energy from their parents, then she will be easily impressed by the sweet words of the opposite sex, and rational judgment will not let them make the choice that worries their parents.

The influence of the physical development of adolescent children, under the trend of hormones, the opposite sex is easily attracted to each other, the interaction between the opposite sex is not so terrible, but the terrible thing is that many parents in the process of educating their children and do not inform them of the bottom line of heterosexual interaction.

This makes many children meet the curiosity and break the boundaries, and eventually not only psychologically caused serious harm, but physical health is also greatly threatened.

Raising girls, parents need to communicate with their children on a reciprocal basis

In this case, the doctor was able to successfully persuade the girl to complete her education, not because of her status as a doctor, but because she mastered the communication skills with the girl, and the conversation between the two was always a communication of reciprocal status.

The doctor affirmed the girl's merits to make her feel respected and told her about her upbringing to make her feel that she was her friend. This sublimates the "reciprocity" in communication.

But in home education, few parents can do with rebellious children reciprocal communication, they are accustomed to using suppression, reprimand, and demeaning to confront the child, over time, the parent-child relationship is close to collapse, and family life chicken and dog jump.

The problem of children's adolescence is a very common and very headache, want to help children smoothly through adolescence, parent-child communication is very important.

Whether it's a boy or a girl, when they accidentally fall on the way to growing up, what parents should do is not reprimand or lament, but turn into a warm light and use the power of words to help them out of the gloom.