The Best Education for Children

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The Best Education for Children

“What’s the best education for children?”

It’s a question that parents across cultures, countries, and generations have asked—whispered in playgrounds, typed into search engines late at night, or worried silently while watching their child struggle with homework.

We all want the same thing: to raise kind, confident, curious kids who thrive in the world. But the definition of “best education” has shifted, especially in an age where technology, mental health, creativity, and global awareness play just as much of a role as textbooks.

I didn’t always think this way. I used to believe the best education meant perfect grades, strict structure, and prestigious schools. That’s what I grew up hearing. That’s what most of us were told.

But then I became a parent—and everything changed.

My Son's First Day of School

My son, Samir, was four when he attended his first preschool class.

We had picked a school with excellent reviews, modern classrooms, and a strong academic curriculum. It looked like everything a parent should want.

But after a few weeks, I started noticing small changes.

He stopped asking the millions of questions he usually did. He no longer spent hours building Lego cities or drawing alien maps. He became quieter, more anxious, and less excited about mornings.

One day, he said something that broke my heart:

"Mama, I think I’m not smart enough for school."

He was four.

That was the moment I realized something crucial: the best education doesn’t begin with grades. It begins with joy.

What Real Education Looks Like

When we think of education, we often imagine a classroom with desks, a whiteboard, and a teacher at the front. But learning doesn't just live in buildings.

Learning is everywhere—on kitchen countertops, in neighborhood gardens, under blankets with flashlights and storybooks, during long car rides, and especially in moments of curiosity.

I once watched Samir spend an entire afternoon trying to figure out how shadows moved on the floor. He wasn’t trying to “win” anything or get a grade. He was just deeply present, fully engaged, and learning by doing.

That’s what real education looks like: inspired exploration, not pressured memorization.

A New Approach

We switched Samir to a different school a few months later—one that focused less on early academics and more on creative play, emotional development, and hands-on learning.

He thrived.

He started asking questions again:

“Why does the moon follow us when we drive?”

“Do ants have birthdays?”

“Can I make my own alphabet?”

I knew then: he wasn’t behind—he was becoming himself again.

And that is the best education of all: one that grows with the child, not against them.

What Truly Matters

So, what makes an education “the best” for children?

Here’s what I’ve learned:

Connection over content

Children learn best when they feel safe, seen, and supported—not just taught.

Curiosity over conformity

When kids are allowed to explore their interests, they become lifelong learners—not just temporary achievers.

Skills over scores

Emotional intelligence, empathy, problem-solving, resilience—these skills matter just as much, if not more, than test results.

Real-world relevance

Let kids cook, plant, count coins, tell stories, fix things—life teaches in powerful ways.

Creativity and critical thinking

The future needs creators, thinkers, builders, and collaborators—not just memorization machines.

What Every Child Deserves

Every child deserves a chance to love learning—not fear it.

Every child deserves teachers who see their potential—not just their test scores.

Every child deserves parents who celebrate who they are, not just what they achieve.

The best education doesn’t demand perfection.

It invites play, imagination, and growth.

It doesn’t pressure—it prepares.

It doesn’t standardize—it nurtures.

And most importantly, the best education doesn’t try to change who a child is.

It simply gives them the space, support, and tools to become everything they already have the seeds to be.

Final Thoughts

The world our children will inherit is changing faster than ever. We don’t know what careers will exist in 20 years, what challenges they’ll face, or what tools they’ll use.

But we do know this:

If we raise them to be confident, curious, kind, creative, and emotionally aware—they’ll be ready for anything.

And that, in my eyes, is the best education we can ever offer.