Spend less time in self-pity

This is a cruel injured person, high paraplegia, can only admire themselves every day, eat mouth, clothes, family only when he needs to take care of his daily life, because to make a living, to make money, there is no pie that falls in the world.

In the eyes of his parents, he has no medicine to cure, can survive in the world is already God's mercy, can do, is to suffer life, indulge in wild thoughts, self-pity. He doesn't have a smile, he can't smile, he doesn't have the gene to laugh, his pain, his torture, has already dug out his smile, not only that, he is getting weaker and weaker, because the body begins to shrink, he is waiting for death, because death is the only direction that God has given him.

His brain was strangely flustered, and every day he slept on his back, aching from his inability to move freely; There was no one at home, mice were with him, the walls were his only scenery, the damp air was his idol, and his thoughts painted pictures of misery: snakes, tigers eating people, wrapping themselves around their bodies. He woke up, crying, but no one to talk, had to endure, endure more vicissitudes of life, finally, he was ruined, shadow and shadow.

One day, the mother unexpectedly found his ideological pain, the mother spent a morning to talk with him, only to know that he is a dying person's voice, he wants to live, want to become, want to realize his luxurious dream.

How is that possible? He should have a monopoly on complaining. Mother held him in tears, she was afraid that he was too hard, and later spent more time to enlighten him, not to let him alone, to read him newspapers, tell him stories, teach him to read, let him increase the nutrition of the brain; What the mother did was not to let him worry about his life, not to let him touch his weak body, the more you care about, the more it will hurt.

He has benefited a lot, his mother quit his job, at ease with him, not only that, the friends are often invited to the home by the mother, the home has become a happy ocean, there are dancing, singing, restless little orioles also came to join in the fun, the breath of spring sent in advance. He became a happy child, and the happy atmosphere helped the treatment of his illness, and after a few months the doctor told him of a miracle: he had extended the length of his life.

The miracle is not tasted for the humor of life. He wants to start a business like a healthy person, or even succeed, this is simply an incredible idea, but he did it, three years, he dabbled in a large number of books at home and abroad, he learned from the great man's accomplishment, from the strong person's experience and charm, his eloquence is very good, this is the only God left him the window, he will wipe it every day to shine, Lecturing became his main occupation. He lectured on his own life, explaining the impermanence of life, telling everyone how a lonely person had gone through the ups and downs of life, and lived a happy and handsome life.

Sean Stephenson, no lower body, upper body is a natural brittle bone disease, dare not speak loudly, but once the words, words, full of economy, many famous universities in the United States compete to invite him to give a speech, his speech content has become Stanford University approved model model, his speech range, including nature, geography, life and astronomy, he is simply a genius in the speech industry, The "Hawking" of the speech world, his name and the story of his success in overcoming many hardships is simply a classic textbook, which makes us healthy people ashamed and speechless.

In a speech, someone asked him the reason for his success, but he invited his mother to the stage, he would like to thank his mother, because it is his mother's not giving up and insight into gold, let him reduce the time of self-pity, vulgar time reasonable use, exercise wings, cultivate ability.

A lot of time in life, in fact, is spent in the self at a loss, grief is our compulsory course, loneliness is our guest, we lack of ways to overcome these boring time, we have to let them become winners, weaken our fighting spirit day by day, let us white hair, without strength.

Reduce the time of self-pity, do not let them exceed 15 minutes a day, and in other times, let the happy upward force and atmosphere occupy the initiative, let the pain of the past, we can not become a big rich, but also will become a wise man, because wisdom is a crown given to everyone by God.