If He Pulls Away, This Will Make Him Chase You

Hey, I see you.

Yes, you—the one sitting with a thousand questions in your heart and tears you’re tired of wiping. I know that ache. That confusion. That silent scream of:

“Why is he acting distant? What did I do wrong?”

I’m Mehul. Think of me like your older brother—the one who won’t sugarcoat things, but also won’t let you drown in overthinking. I’m not here to give you a formula. I’m here to remind you of your worth and whisper the truth that you keep forgetting in the noise of heartbreak: You are not hard to love.

Let’s talk. Just you and me.

He’s Pulling Away… and You Feel Powerless

At first, everything felt magical, right? He was calling, texting, showing up. You felt seen. Chosen. Safe.

And now?

You’re replaying every moment, every word, wondering where it went wrong.

He’s not texting back as quickly.

He’s not as affectionate.

You sense the shift, and it’s making you panic inside.

And that panic? It’s pushing you to chase him harder. To fix it. To shrink yourself and earn back the version of him you first met.

But listen closely: That won’t bring him back.

It’ll only push him further away.

When You Lean In, He Leans Out. But Why?

Most men—especially those with avoidant tendencies—pull away the moment they start feeling too much.

Not because you're “too much.”

But because they don’t know how to handle deep intimacy.

To them, vulnerability feels like danger. Control is comfort. So when they feel themselves falling, they retreat.

It’s like this:

They want love, but they fear losing themselves in it. So they create distance.

And your instinct—calling more, texting more, proving your worth—makes them feel smothered, even if that’s not your intention.

So, what do you do?

The Hardest, Bravest Thing: Let Him Go… Gently

I know what your heart wants to do.

It wants to scream, “Please just talk to me. Please love me like before.”

But you deserve a love that doesn’t need begging.

Here’s the raw truth:

Pull back with love. Not anger. Not silence. Not games. But quiet strength.

Stop chasing.

Stop explaining.

Stop offering discounts on your value just to be “enough” for someone confused.

Instead, become still. Let him feel the absence of your energy.

Because you know what?

When a man feels your warmth fade—not out of bitterness, but out of self-respect—he notices.

That’s when he begins to question himself.

To miss your light.

To realize what he lost in trying to run from his own feelings.

What Makes Him Chase Isn’t Words… It’s Your Vibe

You don’t need to send a long text.

You don’t need to explain yourself a hundred times.

You just need to step back into your own center.

Reclaim your peace.

Rebuild your energy.

Not for him—but for you.

Men chase what they fear losing—but more than that, they chase what makes them feel alive.

Your calm confidence… your silence that says “I don’t chase, I attract”...

That’s the energy shift he can’t ignore.

He’ll Wonder: “Why Isn’t She Chasing Me Anymore?”

And that’s when the magic happens.

The calls start again. The check-ins. The “I was just thinking about you” messages.

Not because you manipulated him.

But because you stopped feeding the energy of lack… and started feeding yourself.

And if he doesn't come back?

That’s also your answer.

Because the man meant for you won’t leave you wondering if you’re lovable. He’ll make damn sure you never have to ask.

You Are Not Broken. You Are Just Waking Up.

This hurt you're feeling? It's not weakness. It’s growth.

You are learning to choose you first. To stop negotiating your value.

To stop chasing temporary love and start embodying lasting peace.

And if you ever feel lost in the dance of male emotions—if you keep wondering what do men really want—I want to gently point you to something that changed a lot of hearts I know, including mine:

👉 Unlock the Love and Devotion You Deserve

Discover the hidden truth behind what triggers a man’s deepest desire to cherish and commit. Not a gimmick. Just the psychology no one told you about.

I believe in you.

Not because you’re perfect. But because you’re trying, healing, feeling—and still loving.

That takes strength most people never talk about.

Let him chase.

Let the right one rise.

And never forget—you were the prize all along.

– Mehul