How to educate my children?

As a mom and an educator at the same time, I have accumulated quite a bit of experience over my career and in this article I bring you the main areas to be based on when educating your children:

- positive communication, positive behavior and education in values ​​are then the three main pillars of education.

How then to combine its 3 main axes when educating our children? knowing that our behavior, our way of speaking and the values ​​that we convey to our dear little ones

have a direct impact on their education, which means that you have to readjust and plan the education of your children with a lot of care and know-how.

1-positive communication:

Communicating well with your child means taking the time to talk to your little one and listening to them.

And for your communication to remain effective, you must:

- Choose a quiet time without distractions.

- schedule a time when your child is available.

- place yourself at the height of your child.

- Look at books often with your child and engage him in commenting on the pictures and the story.

- Be inspired by his favorite subjects to maintain a discussion.

- A caress and a hug are also ways of communicating.

- The game can also reveal its concerns by making its dolls talk.

2- positive behavior:

Parents' behavior towards children must be credible. Don't say what you're not going to do!

What behavior should I teach my little ones?

In my experience, here is a list of behaviors you should teach your children:

- respect for the rules:

your child must learn to respect the rules of the house: time to sleep, time to eat ...

- self-esteem:

developing self-esteem is linked to self-confidence, so loving it and believing in its abilities is very important. He needs to be valued, to make his choices on his own, to be comfortable with others, to express his needs ...

- Autonomy:

Let your child manage on a daily basis, this autonomy affects:

Physical skills.

Thought

Knowledge acquisition

Interaction with others

Managing emotions

In this regard, parents are expected to entrust him with domestic tasks; my child has an interest in resolving his problems if he is arguing with another child, it is better to let him resolve this on his own, just reassure the supervision. Suggest that he thinks about a solution and propose it.

A child between 5 and 6 is able to dress on his own, he can even bathe on his own. Give him time to adjust.

Autonomy in homework:

Invite your child to prepare the materials he will need.

Take a moment with him to show you what he has learned.

Invite him to read a text for his little brother.

What values should I teach my children?

The respect :

Respecting others and being respected is essential for having a fulfilling social life.

Respect for neighbors, respect for the environment, respect for rules and obligations, respect for people ...

A long list to which your child should respect however respect is forged from your behavior and grows with your communication. "If I don't disturb the neighbors, and because you have to respect people, if I don't throw away the waste it's because I respect the environment ..." Do not stop answering your little one's questions on why the rules are respected.

You should know that your little angel is a blank page; it is your duty to fulfill it well

- honesty:

Usually children tend to lie and cover up their actions, and this is precisely when you need to teach them the importance of telling the truth.

- Tolerance:

Accepting difference is an important value for maintaining healthy human relationships.

- Love:

Love is a magnificent human value; with simple gestures and daily actions teach your child the love of Allah and the Prophet.

Write with your child, for example, greeting cards for his grandparents, for his teacher, for the family ...

Education is a great responsibility that must be taken seriously, the child of today is the man of tomorrow. Take care of your children and give them the best of you.