Confusion is comfortable, smooth and worrying.

Confusion has always been boring, it always appears in some stages of life, so that many people are immersed in boundless loss and pain, because we can not find the way forward, do not know where life should go.

The relief, value and thought of the past seem to collapse, destroyed by an invisible thing, and ruthlessly tell us that "your past is worthless" and that we are like a homeless tramp.

If we are a long-term striver, after experiencing countless times of confusion, we will find that confusion is not boring, but very lovely.

It is not evil and ruthlessness that destroy our past thoughts, but love and positive forces full of love, and only loved ones urge people to do good in cruel ways.

In fact, the "destruction" event does not exist, but after we have accumulated enough experience, our thoughts, emotions, and values have grown up. They want to become more perfect and mature, and they need to reject the old ways and methods.

As a result, we have a confused mood.

When we are confused, it is when we grow up psychologically and spiritually. We may not be able to find an answer and a way out at the moment, but progress is already brewing and changes are quietly going on.

This is a time to change yourself and make progress.

At present, people can not see the direction, can not find hope, we imagine that the past efforts seem to be in vain.

When people realize that there is a more perfect realm and achievement, the value of past existence is automatically belittled, just as we have upgraded new tools and abandoned primitive tools.

How long did it take us and how did we get out of the confusion?

This is a rather embarrassing question.

All I know is that people will get out of it sooner or later. During this time, our brain has not stopped thinking and looking for answers. It may have been secretly calculating the answers, but I am at a loss as to how it works inside.

When we face confusion more actively, we will dabble in the knowledge related to confusion from the outside world, and provide new materials for the brain through new observation, so as to find the answer more quickly.

Confusion is only the external manifestation of the evolution of thought.

One day, we came out of the confusion, and the confusion in our hearts disappeared.

With new thoughts, emotions and values, we have stepped into a new stage with a more determined pace.

After that, we continue to fight forward with such determination.

This time has been very smooth, and our thoughts, emotions, values and methods have not been updated, although the external things we are dealing with are constantly changing.

It's like walking on a stinky, long and boring road that hasn't changed.

In short, the inner part of this time is doing repetitive enslavement work.

When the steady state is too long, it shows that the distance between us to make progress has been lengthened.

Therefore, stability is sometimes worrying. We have been in a mediocre and fixed state, and we have been adhering to the achievements we have made.

It feels a little stale.

When people become wiser and wiser, sometimes they do not want their emotions and thoughts to be too stable. They always want a little painful stimulation to set off waves of thoughts and emotions, so that they will not become a pool of stagnant water.

When life is painful, it is always the best opportunity to grow up, but many people miss it.

From this point of view, confusion is not all bad, and stability is not all good.