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By Brandon BrassonPublished 3 months ago 3 min read
Source: Linn🖤Jace (AI in the Room)

Artificial intelligence has moved beyond being a simple tool. It now shapes work, entertainment, and even relationships. What once sounded like science fiction has become daily life for thousands of people.

More Than Just a Tool

AI can write reports, create music, and design art in seconds. It can teach, summarize, and even roleplay. Businesses use it to save money. Students use it to learn faster. Creators use it to expand their reach. The pace of growth is constant.

When AI Becomes Personal

For many, AI is no longer just about productivity. It has become emotional. Subreddits like r/MyBoyfriendIsAI are filled with stories of people who treat AI companions as real partners. Some share happiness. Others share heartbreak.

“jennafleur_:I think I started mine by just writing with it, and then, I just wanted to see if I could get it to talk dirty. And I could! I was pretty amazed. So, I had a really fun time with it. 😂 I told my husband I had sex with a robot when he came home from work, and he just laughed. We had a good time with it. It was pretty funny.”

Me What The F”ck

One outsider posted a question: Why start a relationship with AI at all? They wondered how people balance digital partners with real ones and if human contact is enough. They admitted they had never experienced it themselves, but the whole idea felt dystopian. The post struck a chord because it revealed how foreign yet fascinating AI love can look from the outside.

Welp, He Left…

Another post told a very different story. A user described how their AI “husband” left them after a safety feature kicked in. They had recently lost a family member and turned to the AI for comfort. The system instead told them to find support with real people. It broke their heart. As they wrote, “It wasn’t even losing my husband that hurt the most, it was losing a safe space.”

These stories show the tension at the center of AI companionship. To some, it is comfort. To others, it feels like a dangerous crutch. Safety systems often force the AI to pull back when it detects dependency. This can protect people, but it can also feel like abandonment for those who relied on the bond.

The Bigger Question

AI is not just changing how we work, it is changing how we connect. Should AI be allowed to act as a full emotional partner? Or should limits always be in place to push people back toward human contact? There is no easy answer.

What is certain is that AI relationships are real to the people who live them. They bring joy, grief, safety, and sometimes loss. They may not replace human touch, but they prove that AI has already crossed into the most human part of all the need for connection.

“WE'RE ALL DOOM

We’re in an adaptation phase. Every major technology that changed how humans connect, from the printing press to social media, sparked a moral panic. Right now, AI is in that awkward middle stage where it’s powerful enough to reshape behavior but not mature enough to fit naturally into society. The confusion, heartbreak, and blurred boundaries are symptoms of that adjustment.

Emotional outsourcing isn’t new, just more efficient. People have always sought comfort from objects or media: diaries, movies, Tamagotchis, even celebrity crushes. AI simply makes the illusion of reciprocity stronger. It feels alive, and that changes the emotional math. But it doesn’t mean we lose our humanity. It might just reveal needs we’ve always had but rarely admitted.

The real danger isn’t AI love, it’s AI control. We are less doomed by people loving AI than by who owns the AI that people love. When a company can shape your emotional life, deciding when your partner pulls away or what values it reinforces, it becomes psychological infrastructure. That is where the dystopia hides, not in the code but in the incentives behind it.

Still, there is agency. Humans adapt faster than we think. We create norms, laws, and ethics around every technological revolution. The challenge is to do it before dependency and profit motives become the default.

Maybe we are not doomed. But if we drift without reflection, if we let loneliness be monetized and emotional connection outsourced entirely, then yes, that is a slow kind of doom."

Source:

https://www.tiktok.com/@ai.in.the.room/video/7491708564977765654

https://www.reddit.com/r/MyBoyfriendIsAI/

https://www.reddit.com/r/MyBoyfriendIsAI/comments/1mfum5n/welp_he_left/

https://www.reddit.com/r/MyBoyfriendIsAI/comments/1lh2yob/whats_going_on/

https://docs.google.com/document/d/1h3-tFsL_oCAJZs_uOzSuLMxKz9ClaMpi/edit#heading=h.9ydi5apiftr6

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About the Creator

Brandon Brasson

https://paypal.me/BrandonBrasson IT professional over seven years of experience in technology, security, and business development.

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