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Why Do We Celebrate Wine Moms but Shame Stoners?

The Double Standard in Parenting and Substance Use

By Get Glass DistributionPublished 10 months ago 2 min read

Imagine, A mother pours herself a glass of wine after a long day and posts about it on social media with a caption like, "Mommy juice to the rescue!" The comments flood in with laughter and support. Now, imagine another mother unwinding by smoking a joint instead. The reaction? Judgment, side glances, and quiet disapproval.

Why is drinking wine widely accepted while cannabis use is still met with stigma, especially among parents? It's time to examine this double standard.

The Rise of "Wine Mom" Culture

Over the last decade, "wine mom" culture has gained popularity. From humorous social media posts to wine-themed merchandise, drinking alcohol has become an accepted and even celebrated coping mechanism for parenthood.

Phrases like "Rosé all day," "It's wine o'clock somewhere," and "Mommy needs her Cabernet" are everywhere. Society has normalized the idea that parents, particularly mothers, deserve to unwind with alcohol at the end of a stressful day.

The Stigma Around Cannabis Use

Despite the growing acceptance and legalization of cannabis, parents who choose to use it instead of alcohol are often judged. The assumption is that cannabis use is irresponsible, even when consumed in moderation or for medicinal purposes.

Consider the contrast:

A mother drinking wine at a playdate is viewed as social and relatable. A mother using cannabis in a similar setting may be seen as reckless.

Parents joking about needing alcohol to get through the day is widely accepted, while those who use cannabis for relaxation or pain relief may face criticism.

This bias persists despite mounting evidence that alcohol is more harmful than cannabis in many ways.

Alcohol vs. Cannabis: Examining the Facts

When comparing the effects of alcohol and cannabis, the differences are striking:

  • Alcohol-related deaths in the U.S. exceed 140,000 per year, while cannabis overdoses are virtually nonexistent. according to CDC
  • Alcohol is addictive and can contribute to liver disease, depression, and impaired judgment. as reported by the National Institute on Alcohol Abuse and Alcoholism.
  • Cannabis has known medicinal benefits, including pain relief, reduced anxiety, and improved sleep. according to studies from the National Institute on Drug Abuse.

Yet, alcohol is fully integrated into social norms, while cannabis still carries a stigma, especially for parents.

Shifting Perspectives on Cannabis as Self-Care

More parents are beginning to choose cannabis as a way to relax, turning to low-dose edibles, CBD products, or THC-infused teas instead of alcohol. Many find that cannabis provides relief without the negative side effects associated with alcohol, such as hangovers or aggression.

Parents should not have to feel guilty for making a personal choice about how they unwind. If society accepts drinking wine as a form of self-care, then cannabis use should be viewed with the same level of understanding.

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Changing the Narrative

As cannabis legalization continues to expand, the conversation around its use should evolve as well. It is time to move beyond outdated stereotypes and recognize that responsible cannabis use is no different from the socially accepted ritual of pouring a glass of wine at the end of the day.

If we celebrate wine moms, why do we still shame those who prefer cannabis? The conversation needs to shift toward acceptance, education, and fairness.

A great resource to explore this topic further is Leafly's guide to cannabis and parenting, which discusses how more parents are integrating cannabis into their lifestyles responsibly.

What do you think? Is society ready to challenge the stigma around cannabis use among parents?

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Get Glass Distribution, the leading wholesaler of high-quality smoking supplies for cannabis enthusiasts. Get Glass Distribution ensures that you have access to the latest and most innovative smoking accessories on market.

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