In the age of father, what is his father doing

Li Shuangjiang claimed to be reluctant to beat their children, did not expect his son is willing to beat others. Li Shuangjiang has become the first of the "four famous fathers" on the Internet. If he is regarded as the symbol of the powerful, he is naturally an outlet for people to vent their anger and pour excrement. However, if you see him as a father and an old man, who once talked about his son, his face would be filled with happy touched father, who tearfully apologized for his son but still could not change his son's fate of one year of re-education through labor, you can understand his frustration, confusion and helplessness.

In this era, netizens jokingly call it "fighting for one's father", it proves once again that the troubles caused by the second generation of officials, the second generation of rich and the second generation of stars are rooted in the problems of the previous generation. Those painstaking father, with money, reputation, status for their children's ignorance, shameless and fearless. Think driving a famous car, can lead the world; Carry a famous bag, you can lead China; Such wishful thinking of self-appointed as the future leader, at best is "future sleeves", in addition to prove that those fathers "long sleeves good dance", other is not true.

In a series of incidents related to the "father", we can see the anxiety of two sectors of the society: one is the discontent of some ordinary people who are struggling to find a way out and the other is the indulgence of some vested interests who are eager to train successors to the next generation.

This reminds me of another rich second generation and his father.

In 2008, Taiwan broke the news that Taiwan's Want Want Group bought Taiwan's Zhong Time Group, putting CAI Shao-chung, the eldest son of Want Want's boss Tsai Eng-ming, at the helm of the media carrier, which includes China Times, Taiwan's China TV and China Sky TV. Since then, "Little boss" has become a special symbol for Taiwan media friends to call CAI Shaozhong. Before and after the change, I found that the words and deeds of these friends became a little subtle. They are also in the media industry, and I can empathize with those who have been working in the media field for decades. Suddenly a young man in his twenties becomes his boss. How to ask and how to carry out his instructions? Even if he is not a "don't eat meat" son of a bitch, with a treasure, but just a confidence burst, self-feel very good about the small fresh or small angry young.

Not long after, Taiwan media friends called, they will accompany the boss to Xiamen business, please me to clean up the dust. This is Xiao Fu's first trip to the mainland as a media boss, and he hopes to reach out to his media counterparts on the mainland. This brings me close to the billionaire second generation.

Although I imagined a variety of opening, but the small boss's low-key and modest still surprised me. Although he was still a young man surrounded by people, his manners were as good as those of an elder. I politely asked him a few words, but he said to me very earnestly, "I don't know anything. I rely on them (he made a gesture around him) to help me."

During the dinner we talk very happy, not because of the small boss modest and polite and affect the mood. The boss only asked a technical question. When he saw the interview being broadcast on TV, he found that the microphone of Xiamen Satellite TV was very large and eye-catching. He suddenly asked: "Why didn't you see the MIC of Zhongvision and Zhongtian?" We are busy explaining that the microphone of Zhongsee Zhongtian is close to the interviewee, so it is covered. I smiled to help his counterparts: "This shows that the Zhongxin, Zhongtian journalists are too dedicated, they grab the lead." "What good is it to be near the interviewee?" The little boss asked humbly again. I said, "This will make the recording even better." Small boss gently said: "Is the recording effect a little better important, or the TV station's Mic eye-catching important, I don't understand this, I listen to you." Small boss such a reminder, even I began to think, such a turn a blind eye to technical details, can also be the best of both worlds?

During our conversation, I was surprised to learn that the little boss had not gone to college. Did you fail the exam? It's impossible. Isn't it easy for such a rich second generation to study in a famous university? The little boss's answer surprised me. It turned out that his father did not allow him to go to college. The reason is: "You will lead a lot of doctors in the future, if you are the boss, is also a doctor, afraid you will be too proud, you will not humbly listen to the doctor's advice, even if they want to help you, can't help you. Should have something to lose to others, a little sense of inferiority, to others will be a little polite."

After dinner, while the small boss convenient, I took the hand of Taiwan media friends, quietly said: "The small boss is good!" The friend sighed and said: "Yes, we did not expect that the small boss is so modest and low-key, some people modest people feel polite, but he is very comfortable. At first I was afraid that he would pretend, but when he came to know him, he would find that he really was so sincere." "Luck! I congratulated my media colleagues, and my friend corrected me: "It's a blessing!"

Later, I just know, the small boss a high school graduation, 18 years old was his father put into the company as an intern for ten years, the small boss once recalled that period often scold and be "grind" years: "no business card, no title (title), the whole company only I (name brand) the most special, my brand is only 'CAI Shaozhong' three words. (Compare that to the secretaries-general of the China-Africa Hope Project and the Future Leaders Club.)

Later, to see a series of doctoral degree fraud of the mainland rich, can not help but remind me of that "should have something to lose to others" small boss his father. I suddenly thought: small boss his father does not let him go to college, in the surface of the reason behind is there a deeper reason? Perhaps there is a deeper Chinese wisdom in it, that it is impossible to be perfect in every way that everyone strives for. If life is not destined to be perfect, rather than let fate to arrange, as their own initiative to choose. Wealth, health, longevity, love, marriage, family, children, fame... If you have to choose one of them to make it defective, perhaps the degree and degree is the most worth giving up.

It is a pity that I have never met the father of the little boss who seems to be unkind. Otherwise, I would really like to ask his father for proof. Is it true that I guess the wisdom of "deliberately leaving defects"?

And since then I have not seen the small boss, otherwise, I also want to ask him, if he became a father, will not give the child to leave defects? And if he does, what will he keep?