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Using Silence and Empathy to Find Strength

Empathizing with others enables us to enjoy life to the fullest and most fulfilling extent possible

By OjoPublished about a year ago 3 min read
Top Story - August 2024

The authority of silence 😌

Silence. It is not only the lack of noise. It is a tool, a power, a weapon. Silence can be the loudest statement in a society when everyone is yelling to be heard. Try to consider it. When have you lately really welcomed silence? Not the embarrassing sort that causes fidget, but the kind that lets you breathe, think, and simply be.

Where the magic occurs is silence. Ideas are born here, where clarity first shows up. Our real selves come to us in the still times. Silence has been demonstrated in studies to really spur brain development. You did indeed read right. Two hours of stillness every day, according to a Duke University study, stimulated hippocampal cell growth—the brain area linked to memory creation.

Empathy: The Invisible Linker

People misinterpret empathy a lot of times. It is not about sympathy for someone. It is about knowing their feelings, their suffering, their delight. It's about connecting on a more fundamental level. And also guess what? Silence is where empathy finds home. You open the route to empathy when you stop talking and begin truly listening.

Empathy is not only a feeling-good idea. It's a great tool for developing relationships—personal and professional. According to University of Michigan studies, during the previous few decades, college students' degrees of empathy have plummeted by forty percent. Given that good communication and conflict resolution depend on empathy, this downturn is concerning.

The Insane of Silence 💭

Let us now become somewhat insane. Silence serves purposes more than only personal development. This is revolt. Choosing silence is a daring gesture in a world fixated on continual communication. It's a means of recovering your time, space, thinking. It's about stating, "I'm not compelled to surround every moment with noise. I am still still. I can say nothing at all.

One could find silence to be awkward. It can be horrifying. Still, our power comes from that discomfort. We grow in ability to confront our anxieties and doubts. We learn to accept ourselves. And in that process we grow more robust.

Empathy: The Revolution Quietly

Still another kind of revolt is empathy. Choosing to sympathize is a radical act in a society too frequently feeling cold and detached. It's about forging relationships, tearing down obstacles, and bridging gaps. It is about realizing the humanity in others and in ourselves.

Empathy goes beyond mere kindness. It's about being robust. Putting oneself in someone else's shoes, feeling their suffering, and grasping their challenges calls both fortitude. Still, in doing this you grow stronger. You grow more resilient. You start to become more human.

The Scientific Foundation of Silence and Empathy

Let's get into some science now. Silence and empathy are not only nice ideas. They have actual, palpable advantages. Silence has been demonstrated to lower blood pressure, ease stress, and sharpen focus. Conversely, empathy has been connected to happier lives, closer connections, and even greater health.

Empathy-practicing individuals have reduced body inflammation, according a study written up in the journal Brain, Behavior, and Immunity. This is important as chronic inflammation has been connected to cancer, diabetes, and heart disease among other health issues.

Advice for Using Empathy and Silence Practically

How then may you add more silence and empathy into your life? These are some doable suggestions:

❤️ Start small: Set aside just a few daily silent minutes. As you grow more at ease, gradually extend the time.

❤️ Listen actively: Pay close attention to someone's words, tone, body language. Fight the want to interrupt or offer guidance.

❤️ Practice mindfulness: One excellent approach to develop stillness and empathy is by means of mindfulness meditation. It increases your awareness of your own ideas and emotions as well as of those of others.

Spend some daily time considering your contacts. Consider how you might embrace more silence into your life and increase your empathy.

At last, discovering strength in silence and empathy

Silence and empathy are great weapons for finding strength in a society never stopping to stop talking. They enable our connection with others and with ourselves. They help us to be more human, more resilient, more strong. so welcome the quiet. Encourage compassion. And find the strength right inside you.

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  • Nicole Higginbotham-Hogueabout a year ago

    Great advice

  • Kelly Ridgwayabout a year ago

    Loved this one great wisdom for someone like me who could use it!

  • Testabout a year ago

    I liked your message very much. Very well-written article!

  • Marco Röderabout a year ago

    Very inspiring. Thank you, Ojo.

  • Auliya Hamidah about a year ago

    very insightful!

  • Emefiele justice about a year ago

    Great

  • Cindy Calderabout a year ago

    There is a great deal to be said for the avenues of silence and empathy. Without a doubt, there is far too much of both in this fast-paced world in which we live. Great piece. Congratulations on the Top Story.

  • ReadShakurrabout a year ago

    Thanks for the well detailed analysis

  • Esala Gunathilakeabout a year ago

    Liked it.

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