Friendship
Does it really matter that much
I recently came across the concept of “if you look at a small problem too closely, you are going to make a big deal out of it” which is quite true in a lot of ways because the closer you come to an object, the bigger it looks in your eyes. This quote is very telling, when you consider your relationships and how you interact with different persons. Someone might do something very insignificant but because of the dynamic we have with this person it will push us to make a big deal out of it, meanwhile with another person we would not even bother.
By real Jema2 years ago in Confessions
Surviving A Dark Night of the Soul
Credit: Excerpt from my book, The Dictionary of Missing Time Dark Night of the Soul Definition The “dark night of the soul” is a term that goes back a long time. It is a term used to describe what one could call a collapse of a perceived meaning in life…an eruption into your life of a deep sense of meaninglessness. The inner state in some cases is very close to what is conventionally called depression.
By Susan Eileen 2 years ago in Confessions
An Excursion Past the Mountains
An Excursion Past the Mountains In the peaceful town of Asterfield, settled between transcending mountains and thick woods, lived two indistinguishable companions, Elara and Finn. They had been companions since they were little children, their bond fashioned through incalculable experiences and shared dreams. Elara was the little girl of the town healer, insightful and quiet, while Finn, the metalworker's child, was known for his unfathomable energy and boldness.
By bakhtawar khan2 years ago in Confessions
A Melody of Stars
A Melody of Stars In the curious town of Serendale, settled between moving slopes and old woods, carried on with a young lady named Elara. Known for her thoughtfulness and the tunes she sang in the town square, Elara's voice was said to have the ability to mend broken hearts. In spite of her happy outside, her heart bore a secret distress — a yearning for an adoration she still couldn't seem to find.
By bakhtawar khan2 years ago in Confessions
Dear Gisee
I wrote to you many times Gisee. I seen your picture in the famous magazine. And you looked amazing besides your parents. You became great. And you are on your way to being a legend. I remember when I first wrote to you. You could not make up your mind. You thought deep about life, love, and family. You were wanting to live freely and enjoy life. You were so young and curious. I could see and hear the youthfulness. I could see and hear the excitement. And you were so funny and lovable. I could not stop searching you. And I know you had many suitors and I could not be in the running. I just thought to be your super fan. To love you as a friend. To love you as a supporter. To help you reach your destiny and to help me find my way in life. And I know your job is complicated so I will stand in your corner whenever you need me. And family I understand the difficulties of family from my past but I never thought about it being public. But you carried yourself with grace and dignity. i hope to see you one day either in concert or in person sincerely. And I sought the letter like the other ones before me. I don't know why I wanted to dream but I did. i don't know why I wanted to be apart of her world but I did. I talked to Gisee before I started my career. I was just a writer. And it was hard in entertainment finding an agent. I remember singing on voicemail and on the phone. I remember writing resumes. I remember going in competitions. I remember using all my smarts to do something. And after sometime I left Gisee who inspired me alone. She was already doing great. She had big concerts and her voice was strengthened. She was moving like fire on stage. She was fierce and funny with friends and fans. And she eventually gotten married. And she was happy. I started my professional career and I was performing many times in churches and events. And I eventually became apart of the prestigious ASCAP. I was getting buzz about my first two albums which were circling the globe. And I was wondering what would college do for me? I missed two auditions to be apart of some Gospel Record Labels and to sing with a world renowned choir like Richard Smallwood's Vision. i also was offered a music minister position. But I did not know. I wanted to learn more. They say knowledge is power. So I studied and studied to become better and better at writing and I kept doing my career. And when I was about to finish college, Gisee showed up undercover. She said Barry Barry you haven't written me in so long. I thought we were friends. Friends don't do that to each other. And I heard your albums. And i said Gisee I thought you were too famous to see me. I didn't think you care. She said I was busy Barry but gosh you could have stood by me. I went through a lot. I changed. I don't know if you can look at me the same or forgive me. I said Gisee I forgive you. You inspired me to start my own career. And you know what I got nominated for Best Song in R&B/Soul consecutively many times and this is my fifth time getting Aritst of the Year nomination. Gisee said Alright Barry. Can we be friends again? I said Sure Gisee. She said Now I am married now with kids but there's nothing wrong with having a guy friend to keep you in check and help you balance. I said I could help. Gisee I am talking to someone but I can make time for friends. You always was special to me and in my eyes and I am sure in other people's eyes too. And Gisee kissed me on the cheek and said Barry I will always love you because you are a great friend message me anytime. Here look for Gisee Fierce. And this time I will respond. As she handed me her name, email and number and left. And that's how Gisee and I got our friendship and we both respected each other and continue to inspire each other in the entertainment and music biz just because we both wanna make it to the Rock 'N Roll Hall of Fame.
By Distinguished Honorary Alumni Dr. Matthew Primous2 years ago in Confessions
From Shadows to Light
The neon lights of the bar flickered erratically, casting a garish glow over the dimly lit interior. The steady hum of conversation was punctuated by the clinking of glasses and the occasional burst of laughter. At a corner table, nursing his third whiskey of the evening, sat John Harris. The once vibrant and ambitious advertising executive was now a shadow of his former self, trapped in a relentless cycle of alcohol addiction.
By Lee Lien2 years ago in Confessions
The Art of Letting Go. AI-Generated.
The Weight of Holding On In our fast-paced lives, we often find ourselves holding on to things, people, and experiences far longer than we should. Whether it's a toxic relationship, a grudge, a failed dream, or an unfulfilled expectation, the weight of holding on can be immense. This emotional baggage can cloud our judgment, stifle our growth, and prevent us from experiencing true freedom and peace.
By Astride Evans2 years ago in Confessions
Build Relationships to Influence
In today’s globalized society, the skill of persuading people has never been more relevant. No matter whether it is a business environment, personal life, or club membership, forming good relationships remains the essence of persuasion. These relationships, therefore, are based on trust and respect, where people can lead, encourage, and influence others towards achieving certain goals. Here are how relationships can be used as a lever to increase your sphere of influence and cause change.
By Mohammad Usman2 years ago in Confessions
Surviving Loss: Finding Hope After Tragedy
Thanksgiving morning in 2019 dawned with an unexpected, piercing sorrow. I lost a friend to suicide. The night before, our texts had bounced back and forth. He had things on his mind, but it wasn’t a heavy dialogue. I reassured him that life’s burdens would ease, and we made plans to talk on Sunday, hoping to laugh and lighten the mood. It’s a bitter reality to accept that he made other plans.
By Kalix2 years ago in Confessions
