Surviving 20's Pt . 1

Welcome to the second stage of your life where there are more heartbreaks and less people being involved in your life , This next phase of your life may be tough and challenging on a day to day basis . But all in all it will be worth it in the end in this 4 part series i will be breaking down the . The Good , The Bad and The ugly . My goal by the end of this read is to give people in there 20's such as myself more of an outlook of the positive sides of conquering and Surviving this era .

Now Lets go back to your 19th birthday , Do you remember how excited you were to become the next millennial . And the fact that one year after you reached 20 that you would finally be able to go into a store and buy alcohol . Or the fact that you could finally come and go as you please without your parents hounding your where about's . Oh last but not least moving in with your significant other and starting your new life together everything seemed so easy back then right ?

Wrong you see no one ever warned us about all of the complications that would come with finally being and adult and making our own decisions or about all of the heartbreak we would go through over the years . And if you were raised in a household like me then everything was '' Sugar-Coatted " And never talked about . So here we are facing our 20s alone without any guidance just mistakes to learn and grow from .

The good thing is everything about your 20's isn't all that bad or terrifying as most people would say this part of your life you gain and you lose but most importantly you learn yourself more . You learn that not everyone in your past deserves to be in your future or that its ok to mess up as long as you don't give up . That significant other you thought that would last forever was only just a phase of many phases when it comes to love .

Those friends that you thought would last forever get distant the more you start finding your place in your life it hurts to know that the people you thought you would be around forever slowly start to disappear .It hurts knowing your hopes and dreams when you were younger probably wont come true but nevertheless you keep pushing yourself to become that person that you dreamed of no matter who supports you and who doesn't .

Its Like everyday is the same repeated cycle that you try to break but cant due to how the way society is now and days . Everyone wants Money , Love & Happiness . But isn't that the way that life is supposed to go ? We literally spend majority of our 20's Searching for those 3 main components in life not Realizing that we should love ourselves more then trying to find and , and that we can create our own happiness . And as far as money it comes and goes just like the wind .

Nothing in life is to easy or to hard its just a big puzzle that we spend every consecutive day trying to piece together . And in the end when we finally piece together that puzzle we've wasted so much precious time .

So Love yourself more , Do what makes you happy no matter what life may throw at you .

Thanks for reading hope you enjoy .