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Strangers, what do you think of the word friendship?

Grow up more lonely, is the feeling between person and person really very complex?

By guyufengPublished 3 years ago 3 min read

Indeed, the relationship between any person is complicated, because human beings are naturally a very complicated creature. It is common to sympathize with the weak at times, and at other times to mock and belittle them. The more we grow up, the more lonely we are. I think this is a theorem. When we were young, we were all simple children, and there were not so many restrictions and distinctions between us and other children. When I grew up, I was in primary school. At this time, we gradually had our own small group. These few people played well, and that few people played well, not like when I was a child, and which children can play well. Then gradually, when I went to junior high school and university, those good friends who used to play gradually ceased to contact with each other and became strangers when THEY went to different schools. Play a group of good people changed a group, new people change old people, or only play a few good friends will occasionally contact. Gradually, after finishing college, your classmates will find jobs one by one, get married and have children, of course, so will you. Then you will focus on your family and have less and less contact with friends... There are only a handful of friends who can call out for a meal. Friendship, this kind of thing, you have to see both sides, you and others make friends, make like-minded friends, three views are different, how to make friends, if the friend is not right, just want to take advantage of others, will only steal the dog, then this friendship is not necessary to operate, should be far away; On the other hand, if you make friends with integrity and integrity that are compatible with your values, the friendship will be less vulnerable. But good friendship, long friendship is to be managed, you and I contact contact, I contact with you, this friendship is not managed. I think, the friendship, you need is a business, my girlfriends and I are studying in tianjin university, we are not in a school, but we will have time to get together and have some fun, she will take for me to eat, I will also bring water for her, the feelings between us is mutual, I think we between each other is very comfortable, of course I'm sad, upset, I would complain to her, and she would tell me when she was unhappy. I often felt lucky to meet her. She partial introverted personality, and I belong to alternately introversion and extroversion, still belong to that kind of not to like to talk, afraid of a little club, I think I am a strange person, when I was in my school is often a person, a person to eat breakfast, a person to the building and though I have the object, but still feel lonely, I basically don't talk every day. But I'm not sad either. Maybe I'm heartless. I don't know if there is anyone like me. In a word, friendship needs to be operated, if you feel that a friendship, you and he/she are very uncomfortable to get along with, only one side is giving in to the other side, this friendship is not a real friendship. Maybe sometimes you will make friends accidentally and have a friendship that you don't want to remember, which makes you feel betrayed, then please keep your heart pure, and he/she to keep a distance, because such a person is not worth deep friendship.

Friendship

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