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By Stellhorn EbersolPublished 3 years ago 3 min read

We Chinese pay more attention to face. As we all know, this is a kind of mass psychology. No matter what you do, face is in the forefront. It doesn't matter if you spend more money or find more to save face, which leads many people to detour. In fact, sometimes, as long as we learn to put down face, a lot of things will welcome the solution. Some pay a heavy price for their pride.

Put down face, although it will be a little embarrassing at the time, but you will get unexpected surprises. Mo Zhengao, who serves as the president of a senior school in Guangxi, put down his face to raise money from various construction sites and enterprises in order to help those poor students fulfill their college dreams, and finally succeeded in helping more than 2,000 students fulfill their college dreams. He was called "the headmaster of alms-begging" by the students, but unfortunately he died at the age of fifty-nine, and his students rushed back from all over the country, and the students who sent him off spontaneously organized and stood the whole long street. Although he is gone, he will remain in the hearts of the students forever, and he will always be the headmaster of alms. Is Principal Mo just born to beg? No, because Principal Mo put down his own face for the students, and finally harvested the students' permanent concern.

Put down the face, although at that time everyone looked down on themselves, but you will be in the future. Goujian, King of Yue, the last overlord of the Spring and Autumn Period in ancient China, was occupied by Wu when he was young and became a prisoner of war because his country was weak. At that time, he was ambitious and vowed to restore the country and must live, so he put down all face and even the dignity of a man and endured the humiliation to survive. And every day for the rest of my life. After more than 20 years of hard work, he finally defeated the state of Wu and became an overlord. Could it be that King Gou Jian of Yue was a coward like a mouse and just survived? No, because he dared to put down face, so that he could achieve his ambition, and finally brilliant life.

Always defend face, although in the moment of glory, but you will pay for it. Xiang Yu, the overlord of Western Chu, was not only superior in strategy, but also superior in martial arts. Overlord. Once skillfully used the war strategy to break the Qin army, and had the courage to break the boat and capture Xianyang. But because of nature good face, think the world invincible, did not listen to Master Fan's strategy. Finally wound up on all sides of the Wujiang suicide. Was Xiang Yu incapable of leading the battle and lacking in ability? No, because he was arrogant and didn't listen to the opinions of others, which made him pay the heavy price of committing suicide in the Wujiang River.

Face is important in one's life. But we also have to look at face correctly, people accept face, is the normal psychology of people. But we can't pay too much attention to face, or we will get uncontrollable results. Put down your pride and your life will be different.

Put down the face, although at that time everyone looked down on themselves, but you will be in the future. Goujian, King of Yue, the last overlord of the Spring and Autumn Period in ancient China, was occupied by Wu when he was young and became a prisoner of war because his

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