My Wife's Double Life and My Struggle for Freedom

My wife had two extramarital affairs, and I only catch her doing them when she is having them both at the same time.

I have chatted with both of them at the same time, I can't call because my husband is there, so I chatted with both of them, and when I asked why they were late in replying, they said that the baby is here.

We have been married for seven years, and our daughter is now five years old. I work, I am a bit busy, my wife is not alone at home with the baby, and there are two other people at work.

I have not done anything to the baby, I do everything she says, I give everything she asks, but with those two people, she has only said my mistakes and shortcomings, the only thing I have done is not good.

I make changes.

I don't look after her.

I mostly look after my family and do my job.

I don't look after that and the baby.

I come home late.

I come and bother her.

Like,

These are so many lies, sometimes I come home late at night, it's inevitable with the job I do.

Then I go and wear a washcloth and share food and sleep alone.

Most days when I wake up in the morning and get ready to go to the office, they are still sleeping, at least I don't get a cup of tea from them

Today I am not feeling well, so when you ask me to bring food from outside, I do so.

I am still sick, so when you ask me to bring food for dinner, I bring it.

But I looked carefully, even when he said that, he had been chatting very well and lovingly with those people.

All the lies have been played.

Those two relationships started and continued at the same time, I thought that the child was not properly fed, dressed, stayed with him, and was not pampered.

Either give the child a phone and ask him to watch a video, or turn on the TV and watch it and do his job.

He has even brought both of them home several times and even had sex with them.

Both of these people are younger than him, one is an army officer and the other is in the gem business. They met on Instagram.

When it comes to his wife, he likes tall and fat people very much. He always tells me that you should go to the gym and try to build your body, and you have a big belly like her.

We have been married for several years, and he has a good family background and money, he only has his mother and father and brother, they do nothing for his wife and the baby. They give him money as he pleases. Also, he is a well-educated person who went to university.

As far as I know, his past is good, he has been obedient to his mother and father.

But with the stories he is telling me now, I understand that he married me not because he wanted to, but because his parents forced him to, they are saying it now.

He didn't have a baby because he wanted to, but because his parents told him to.

Now he understands what life is all about, because we lost his beautiful youth. Now we have to take responsibility for all this.

I said okay, let's forget all this and live well, I will forget what you did, forgive me for everything.

He says he has done nothing wrong, he says everyone has done wrong to him.

He says he did what he wanted. If he thinks he has done something wrong, he tells me to make the decision I want.

After suffering for years, I want to live the way I want. I want freedom for that.

Now both of those people don't talk to him, because his brother and I told them to stop these things, and now my wife is very angry with us for that.

They are very stubborn and stubborn and don't listen to anything anyone says.

Still trying to talk to them and maintain that relationship.

I lost two of my best friends, I didn't think of running away with those people, they were my best friends. The people who used to tell me things.

You guys together made me lose them.

When we asked how it could be a friendship, you guys went beyond what you say friends do and acted on it, it's been proven, right?

He says that's what friendship is. They say they're not bad people.

You all together made me a prisoner, I got married after university and had a child, I didn't let me do the things I wanted, I wanted to get a job and dress nicely. Travel.

But I was trapped in a house. No matter how many things you gave me to wear, they rotted in the closet and got old. If I had been given a job, I could have pulled them on and gone to the office nicely.

I wake up in the morning and take off my night dress and put on a T-shirt and pants, take it off again in the afternoon and put on another one, and put on a night dress again at night and sleep. Do you want me to stay like this forever?

Don't think that no matter how much you do, I'm happy because of them. I've never been happy with anything except for one thing you've done for me.

You all gave me not what I wanted, but what you wanted. You thought I should be happy with what you said and did, and that I should accept it.

I'm happy that I became a mother. But that didn't happen the way I wanted.

I was patient and said that this was my destiny, but even for destiny, I shouldn't bow my head too much.

If you want to divorce me, I'll give it to you. I want to be free in my own way, that's all I ask.

Now he sleeps in a separate room