Manifesting The Love You Want

I love journaling. I love manifesting. I believe in using your energy to produce the outcomes you desire in life, within reason of course. I decided to share an insert from one of my most recent entries of my personal journal, to possibly help anyone else out there that may not be able to put into words the type of partner they wish to live their life with. I must warn you, this insert is an mantra. Meaning, the more you repeat thinking, speaking, writing, or breathing in this mantra the more your energy is actually being programmed to focus on only the traits you aspire to have in a life partner.

So please take this seriously.

I also, want to put a disclaimer out there to please adjust this mantra as it fits your personal love situation. Meaning, exchange nouns as you please, I do not wish to offend anyone, but I will be sharing my personal wording as it appears in my journal.

" My husband will find me soon. He will be my best friend. He will understand my faults, and I his. As a team, we will work toward our goals."

Now I just want to stress again, to please change this mantra as you see fit to fit your needs. Being a Capricorn, one thing I've noticed throughout my "love life" is that I thrive and NEED a partner who has goals in life. At one point, in my younger years if a guy was cute, had a decent sense of humor that would've been enough for me to become attracted.

AT this very moment and time in the circle of life, it pained me to even write that. I now crave stability, someone that has a work ethic that is similar to mine being that no matter what obstacles come our way, we will work or do work that needs to be done, in order to maintain stability for our family. Too many times in the past have I dated someone who aspired to be nothing. They didn't want to work, didn't want to operate their own business, didn't want to take time and advance their knowledge.

Too many times have I been head over heels for someone who I overlooked every flaw and tried to nurture and provide for their every need that I was too blind to see that these people didn't even LIKE me... How could I be so blind to not see that not only did these individuals not want to be in a serious and committed relationship with me, they didn't even want to be my FRIENDS.

Now I do want to point out that some of these individuals I'm talking about go back all the way to middle school, I promise I'm not currently that pathetic. But I will admit that everything I've written above represents all of who I have been at one point in my life.

So one day, as I'm reflecting on what I should write on the next blank page of my journal I decided to create a new mantra, something that has been tugging at my heart strings but was too chicken to really face. I was hurting my own "love life". I kept attracting the same negative and off balance relationships. Why did it seem that I was stuck going nowhere? I decided that day, to forever focus on what I WANT in my life. I was going to start building the essence of MY HUSBAND. MINE... all mine.

Oh yea I should add that you can always add on, edit, or create new mantras for any situation. Once you know what you really want to say, it's nothing to create the mantra, it is the diligence to focus on the actual words, and the actual outcome of what that life would look like.