love in the fast food age

love in the fast food age

Nowadays, people are getting busier and work pressure is increasing. We spend our time wandering between two o'clock and one line every day, and we rarely have time to have a good meal. Love in the fast-food era is more like fast-food-style love. We don’t need to think about what love is. We only need to eat a meal, buy a piece of clothing, or watch a movie to express love. Fast-food love is more precious and sweet in today's era. They no longer consider the giving and rewards between each other, and they no longer consider the various possibilities of future life. I remember a TV series called "Dear" which had a segment that impressed me deeply! The heroine Chen Yanan is a very proud person, she will never bow to the man she likes.

①You can tell whether he is good or bad at a glance, because he has always occupied an important position in your heart.

Once he took a woman to the movies, and the two of them just sat in the movie theater and watched the movie. Suddenly the woman said to him: "We don't have to leave this place so quickly, we just need to walk a few more steps." Her voice was very gentle, which made Chen Yanan feel protected. She once saw a man in a restaurant, that man was handsome and tall, but it was such a man who didn't know how to restrain his behavior and attitude in front of him. Chen Yanan fell in love with this man at first sight after seeing him that time. The next day I went to his house as a guest and saw him chatting with a group of friends about something. Chen Yanan went up and asked what was going on? After hearing Chen Yanan's question, the man started talking about that matter. It turned out that those people were playing a game! Are they chatting there and saying that their company has recently encountered some problems that need to be solved? But he actually mocked his girlfriend there, and then pulled her out to laugh in public. The woman was very angry and sad and yelled at him: "You are too much!" He said: "Am I too much?" The woman said again: "You are too bad!" He said again: " I'm not that bad!"... The woman was so embarrassed by his scolding that she didn't dare to speak anymore, because her heart was beating all the time! Because that woman always thought that there could only be love between her and Chen Yanan! In this way, the two of them kept fighting until after 11 o'clock the next night. The woman got into an argument with her boyfriend on the phone and scolded him a few times. As a result, the two of them quarreled directly on the phone, and after the phone was hung up, the man was too frightened to speak. He was afraid that he would never hear Chen Yanan's voice again, and even more afraid that his love with her would end like this. So their feelings for each other became weaker and weaker, and finally they were like strangers! Love without any emotional foundation simply cannot last long! After that incident, Chen Yanan hadn't seen this man for a long time, and she no longer believed that this man had talked about him. But when she saw this man again, she still felt very sweet and beautiful in her heart! After that time, Chen Yanan never looked for that woman again, and he also began to become more and more distant.

② There are many problems between two people, but because there is no way to communicate and solve them, the problems can only be left there. If a person is willing to actively communicate with you to solve them, it means that he is serious about this relationship.

③If you love someone very much, please cherish her contribution, please don't lose your temper with her or blame her, please let her see how good you are to her! ④ If there are many problems between two people, then they must communicate and solve them. ⑤We can choose to love each other in our own way, but don't be too impatient. ⑥If you like a person, please treat him well! ⑦I hope you all can reap the happy life you want in love! ⑧We all hope that our lives can be very happy, so we need to manage this relationship well. ⑨Don't take yourself too seriously! ⑩Believe in the other party. ⑪I know I'm not good enough! # ⑫ But as long as you can always be nice to me, I will be nice to you! ⑫ In fact, there is a very important sentence: "It doesn't matter who you are"; because you will give you the happiness you want. ⑫ In fact, everyone has their own happiness. ⑬This sentence is very simple, but it is very difficult to do. "Who do I want to be?" "How do I want to live a better life?".'"If you don't answer these two questions, I will feel that you are running away from something.''"If this is the case, it means that he It's not that I love you, it's that I don't care about you. "[If he doesn't care" does that mean he doesn't know what love is? ”].’’What’s the point of love if you both can’t work it out?” [Actually, I don’t know why we hurt each other like this. ]'' When he treats us well, it means he really loves us! So we must cherish it! # ⑮: "The longest and shortest in the world: that is time; the fastest and slowest in the world: that is time; the most precious and the easiest to be ignored in the world...". # ⑯: "Love should be people-oriented.";''Don't use your own ideas to restrain the other party! ’ ‘Make the other person feel happy to be with you! '". "We don't need to think too much about each other's ideas, as long as we are happy ourselves!" # ⑯: "If you are not happy, you can wait until later...';''If happiness takes time to wait'"; "If you really love each other, then you will always be together; if you don't cherish, then don't think about each other anymore !” [Loving someone is a very difficult thing! #)

③When we lose ourselves in a relationship, we might as well think about this relationship in another way.

If your significant other loves to do something, do it with him! You can also learn to be with him. If your love has reached such a point, you might as well try to let go of this relationship between each other and pursue other love. Maybe only by doing this can the love between you become more pure! If you find that the relationship between the two of you is very bad now, you can try to change yourself. If you feel that it is very stressful for the two of you to get along, try being together! I believe that one day you will get an answer that belongs to you! [This sentence]: If we can't be together, don't be sad.