Have you lost her?

Most women, when going through breakups or "breaks".... they continue to hold on tight to that person that meant so much to them. They hold onto the hope that he will never stop loving her, the hope that they can eventually work it out. They try different ways to make themselves feel better, to help them forget about their pain, to free their wandering mind. They do this all while continuously putting themselves through sometimes unbearable torture. It's a very tragic cycle that we cause.

I'm gonna let you in on a little secret though...

Because women do these things and because we hold on so tightly in the beginning... When a woman starts to realize her worth and what she does and doesn't deserve, she tends to start pulling away. Those intense feelings of love and pain from a bruised or broken heart.... any feelings of betrayal or loneliness... all of that begins to subside slowly. Yes, of course, there will still be moments of sadness and pain, but even that will eventually fade until its gone completely.

Where some men tend to fail is when they think that she will wait around forever for him to come back. There isn't a timeline that she can give you. There is no warning. She doesn't even know that it's happening until one day, she thinks of him.... that man she loved with all she had... and in that very moment, she is no longer sad. That is when you lost the best part of her.... You lost her "whole" heart.

Now keep in mind, there are moments before that where you still have the chance to win her back and there may even be moments after that, but know that when she reaches that point where she is no longer sad. It will be very hard for her to let herself fully love you like that again... if she ever does. You get one chance! Only one chance, for a woman to fully.... 100%.... give you her whole heart and love only you with that "whole" heart of hers. If you bruise or break it, don't expect her to just hand over what's left of it when you are ready. That won't happen.

There are consequences that come with a woman only loving you with part, or a piece, of her heart. She can decide at any moment that you are not good enough for her, another man could easily treat her a hundred times better and she may realize that, most likely she won't put you first, and pretty much anything in her life may be prioritized before you. These are only a few examples.

Now that you know this secret, don't waste any more time! Decide if you still want her "whole" heart or if you are willing to accept a woman that will only love you with part or a piece of her heart. All I can tell you is that, if you really and truly love a certain woman, you won't wait to win her back. Because you know that if you wait too long, you could miss your chance completely.