Depp and Heard “alike story”

Watching the trials of Hollywood actors on TV reminds me of devastating time when I was with the person I onced cherished and loved with all my life.

Those words “Domestic violence” is so vast meaning with broad explanations in how did you committed the crime.

I was in my late 20s, I fell in love with a guy on his late 40s. I thought I knew Im matured enough to commit in a serious relationship.

At first, I was very excited, inlove, full of hopes and adventure moments im going to create and spend with this man. Every “ “FIRSTs” is really gives you the unmeasurable happiness within and feels like there’s no longer much better emotion beyond it.

First self introductions, first date, first kiss, first meals, first sleeping together, first adventure and so on….

Life is fulfilled and it feels heaven that all you think is, “you & me and the rest is secondary!

First few months are amazingly beautiful! Until reality of life strikes and true colors revealed.

A year passed, then suddenly one big mistake changes almost everything but that “LOVE” you thought will conquers all is undeniably untrue.

He blatantly cheated on me with his 8 years relationship with his ex. Skyping with her in our own bedroom while im on the way back to surprise him for his birthday.

Boom! You are so inlove with the person, you gave your trust without thinking he could possibly do this to you and have no idea even a single moment on your brain that he will betray you…..

Then arguments started to happen. Now frequently with bad names calling, physical and until you both hated each other.

Then unimaginably court trials you never expected you will be involved.

You love, you lost. You trust, you lost. You Dream, you lost. It sounded like one of my favorite song by Alanis Morrisette.

But I did not expect how much impacted my life, my insight about relationships, and my views on happy ending stories.

Here comes what I had accomplished on that Bad Romance…

Ladies listen up and gentlemen stay gentle please…

Being in a relationship comes with obligations. Love someone deeply and honestly but keep your guard up and “ME” time. Love yourself and always have self respect. Pay attention to red flags and dont focus much on imperfections.

Give your trust but trust yourself enough to follow your guts.

Be inlove but mind your actions. The most important thing is, walk away as fast as you can when your self worth is no longer being respected and always be true to honest outspoken person because that will lead people in how you will be treated.