Confess or suffer..its always your choice

I'm not brave enough to confess some things that have happened in my life.. The consequences to me, is just not worth it. No matter what happens, some will say you are a hero, some will call you a no-good human being. while others will just call you crazy. I had an incident happen while married to my ex-husband.. well, a couple things that to this day I cannot divulge as much as I desire to tell anyone. I know that if i reveal what I know I saw with my own two eyes i would probably be in an institution or be under someone's watchful eye..destroying all and any credibility I ever had.. What about you? Have you ever been in a situation that no matter how remarkably terrifying it is, you knew that it would go with you to the grave?? Hey, that's what i will do... I will write it out in detail .. and pray that when i die, it will be found and the consequences of my confessions will be righteous and swift.

Now it is a burden on my soul and everything I am made of.. I often wonder by keeping quiet, will i cause hurt to anyone else?? Confessions..I confess that it isnt always the right thing to do in life. no matter how moral, ethical, how full of personal integrity it may be...Confessing your dark secrets can sometimes, destroy you...I remember many times i talked to my friends... and sort of felt out the situation, I had to be sort of sneaky about it though, because when you are 'asking for a friend' they know immediately its you.

What if you cheated on your best friend with her husband? I didnt but there are always two sides to this one.

If you tell your friend what you did you destroy your friendship and obviously she will tell her husband where to go... So what do you do. I have had friends admit to me what they did. Now I personally hate that because when does the moral decision come in whether to tell the person who got cheated on to bail out of a situation they do not deserve. Here is where the confession thing always gets me... I know of many people who try to cheat on their wives. I've had them 'try' it with me. I decided since nothing ever happened, i told the jerks that their wife was a beautiful sweet person who i would never want to hurt by telling them what a dope their husband is... So i refrained... I felt like it would do more harm than good.. But what if you know someone may have done a criminal act... Knowing about a criminal act and not reporting it, is not against the law. Once again. we have to weigh the outcome. Will they repeat it again and who will be hurt or saved from it.. What will it cost me, ...I set my own boundries... If someone hurts a child forget it. I have no mercy. I will expose them with glee.. So i guess in conclusion we all have to chose what is right for us, and who it will ultimately hurt or spare with our decision to confess our so called sins to another...After being on the confessing end and seeing that it did more damage than good, I realized that i need to just keep my mouth shut, and stop doing things, or hanging out with people doing things, that are scandalous.. Staying away from it is a good preventive measure, in the long run.. Thats my story and im sticking to it