After 16 years of marriage, a woman finds out that her husband is HIV-positive and has a child outside

A 33-year-old woman is seeking advice and legal help. She got married to her husband, who is 43 years old, when she was 20 years old, after meeting him at the age of 17. Despite being in a relationship for many years, the woman claims that she has been facing various issues in her marriage. She mentions that her husband was a Christian when they first met, but he was unfaithful and continued to cheat on her even after their marriage. She also alleges that he is a narcissist who financially abuses her and is disrespectful toward her.

The woman found out that her husband is HIV positive, which has further impacted her mental and emotional health. She also discovered that he has a child from another relationship and is cheating on her with someone from their village. The woman is no longer in love with her husband and wants to divorce him, but she is unsure of how to go about it. She is currently unemployed and fears the stress and cost associated with a divorce. The woman prays every day to find a permanent job and become financially independent so that she can provide for herself and her children.

My Advice to Her

I think Seeking legal counsel and advice from a trusted family member or friend can be a good starting point in navigating the process of divorce.

In terms of finances, it may be a good idea to start planning ahead and saving money so that you can have some resources available to cover the costs associated with the divorce process. You can also consider reaching out to local organizations or legal aid services to see if they can provide you with assistance.

It is also important to prioritize your mental and emotional health during this time. Divorce can be a difficult and stressful process, and it is important to take care of yourself and seek support from friends and family when needed. Consider reaching out to a therapist or support group if you need help coping with the stress and emotions of the situation.

Ultimately, it is important to make a plan that is in your best interest and the best interest of your children. This may involve making difficult decisions, but it is important to have a clear goal in mind and to have a support system in place to help you through the process.

Story 2

A 39-year-old single mother with a 19-year-old son is seeking advice on a problem she is facing with her son. She wants to remain anonymous. The mother has recently entered into a relationship with a man and has noticed that her son doesn’t seem to approve of the relationship.

Every time a visitor, especially a man, comes to the house, her son doesn’t greet them. The mother confronted her son about his behavior towards the man she is in a relationship with, and her son made excuses that he always greets the man when they see each other in the street and doesn’t have a problem with him.

However, when the man visited the mother’s house, her son didn’t greet him. The son claimed he was sleeping and the noise from the mother and her partner laughing woke him up. The mother is now seeking advice on how to make her son understand that she is in a happy relationship with this man. Please leave your opinions about what you think about this second story guys and what step would you take if you were in this position