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6 Qualities Women Want In A Partner

Characteristics that identify an ideal partner.

By Lory FarranPublished 3 years ago 3 min read

If there's one thing that all women can agree on, it's that they've always been told what they want.

Society has never bothered to question them about their own aspirations and desires.

But what do women want?

According to research, women's desired positive traits in a partner are determined by the type of relationship they seek.

What women want is defined by what such characteristics signify for their desired relationship.

Women prefer mature and dependable partners because they want a relationship that is devoid of immature emotions.

Signs that a woman is interested:

Eye contact

She pays attention

She smiles way more than usual

You catch her looking at you

She laughs at your jokes

She makes an extra effort into dressing up

She compliments you

She makes time to meet you

She remembers little details about you

Some may find it difficult to grasp what women want since it depends on each individual woman, but there are some characteristics that most women want.

These characteristics are frequently determined by the type of dynamic they desire to develop with their partner.

I will not include "Love" on this list because it is given!

It starts with love.

However, love alone will not sustain a relationship.

1. Communication

I have placed Communication first on this list because none of us can read minds.

We cannot expect to have a decent relationship if we do not express our thoughts and desires.

Communication is essential for a long-lasting, solid connection. 

It is for this reason that it is one of the most important attributes a woman seeks in a partner.

A person who understands the value of efficient communication is unquestionably a keeper.

According to research, healthy communication among couples is determined by the quality of the discussions rather than the quantity.

Instead of leaving you to your own devices to overthink and figure things out, an ideal partner will be there with the facts and the truth.

TOGETHER, YOU STAND!

2. Respect

When asked for guidance, a good partner has great knowledge to provide. Nonetheless, he understands that the final decision is yours, and he not only respects but also supports it.

Difference of opinion:

Women like partners who do not always agree with them, but they always have their back.

These types of partners understand how to hold a conversation, and it is this that propels them ahead in a relationship.

3. Honesty

Women value open and honest partners more than any other characteristic.

The thing about honesty is that it indicates safety. 

What you see is what you get, and there's nothing to hide.

A partner who has nothing to hide becomes the safe place in which a woman can hide her heart.

4. Compassion/Self Awareness

A true partner is one who allows his heart to be moved and then allows his actions to follow his heart.

This is someone who seeks restoration, healing, and resolution, someone who attempts to rectify the wrongs in his surroundings as well as the wrongs within.

The concept of toxic masculinity no longer makes hardened and indifferent men appear admirable. 

Real guys who are candid about their pain and vulnerabilities are desired by women.

Vulnerability is Courage!

5. Humility

What elevates a man more than anything else on earth is his capacity to humble himself.

A good man doesn't need to brag about himself since his life does it for him.

He can put away the chatter because a man of humility is more concerned with his walk.

He is fast to listen, slow to talk, and slow to grow upset because he has given up his "rights" in exchange for the right to be selfless, loving, and full of forgiveness.

6. Sense Of Humor

You have her if you can make her laugh!

However, don't go overboard, and avoid making jokes when the matter is serious.

Everything has its own time.

Final Thought:

When a woman is seeking a partner, she is drawn to specific characteristics that are unique to that partner.

A mature and trustworthy companion implies a partnership that will provide opportunities for both parties to improve. 

It will serve as a solid foundation for the ups and downs of life.

Ladies, don't you dare settle for less!

Thank you…

DatingHumanity

About the Creator

Lory Farran

I am a mother of beautiful twins, a musician, a blog writer, and a video creator.

My artistic side plays an important role in everything I do.

I write about the things that move me.

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