The Majesty of Self-Love

Love would come to me at the proper moment, I have always known that in life’s big court. However, I also realized that I needed to be strong and confident in myself before my king comes. I have to accept the positions of both queen and king until my king arrives, a profound insight that changed my outlook on life and love that hit me last year.

Having reached my 30s, I had come to realize that my existence was defined by my solitary spirit rather than my lack of a companion.

The Queen reigns with grace and power, and I have reminded myself again and time again that I, too, must lead my life with dignity and self-assurance.

Yet, I also saw the necessity for the Queen’s caring, sympathetic spirit, a position that combines authority with kindness and compassion. I wholeheartedly welcomed the revelation, convinced that the right King would be attracted to me at the proper time by my heart, spirit, and destiny.

The one for whom I wait, is no ordinary mortal.

Speaking seven languages, he is an exceptionally charming and intelligent man whose generosity is second to none. Being both strong and gentle, he exemplifies the ideal gentleman. A man whose soul is so pure that he perseveres through the loneliness of solitary life in search of love. People look up to him because he is an example of positivism and goodness. And, even though he hasn’t expressed his love to me yet, I have faith that he is waiting for me as well.

Still, I will reign supreme in my own life until that day comes.

I used to love sitting at the window of a tiny, nice yet fancy café, drinking coffee and taking in the sights and sounds of the outside world. I couldn’t help but think back on my journey as I sat quietly in the afternoon. Although I had been fortunate, life had presented me with obstacles that ultimately helped mold me into my present self. Though brief, I did have periods of uncertainty, when I questioned whether or not I was destined to face life on my own. I realized that my wait was filled with anticipation, not despair.

The beauty of life is not often in the instant gratification, but in the patience we display while waiting for the perfect match, just like the story of the man who speaks seven languages, such an amazing soul, yet still unmarried. Many people are captivated by this man’s intelligence and kindness; nonetheless, he shares my understanding that the finest things in life are not always instantaneous.

Without my King by my side, I have had to learn to love myself with all my splendor. As the ruler of my kingdom, I have come to respect myself. By pursuing my passions, building a life full of experiences, and receiving affection from those around me, I have become the architect of my own happiness.

At the appointed hour, my King will see my value, and I shall see his. I am content and at peace ruling my own kingdom until then.

But I believe that all the chapters of my life have been a lovely preparation for this time, just as the arrival of my King will bring joy and togetherness. Not only will the King I await complete me, but he will also motivate me to achieve even more, because that is what I intend to accomplish for him. Together, we will create a legacy of love, respect, and passion; he will celebrate my victories and comfort my sorrows.

Meanwhile, I am fully enjoying the delights and trials of being the queen of my life. Being confident in my abilities, I face the world with the knowledge that my King is travelling alone, too.

He, too, is evolving into his finest self, much like how I am. We will always be bound together in an eternal bond, and our love story will always be a tale of peace and mutual understanding.

In the timeless tale of love, we all play the role of royalty, eagerly anticipating the arrival of our soul mate and the profound impact they will have on our lives.

Up until that time comes, I will stand firm, a queen unto herself, ruling with wisdom, love, and the eager expectation of the day when I join my king or the day when my king will express his love for me.

Preparing for the greatest love story that has yet to be told is more than just waiting; it is living, thriving, and reigning in self-love.

Because of the genuine royal love that will be present when the King comes, the kingdom will be prepared to thrive….

Anticipating the arrival of my King, who will fulfill me….

…….. and we will rule in an eternal love.