Maybe You’re Not Unlovable—Maybe They Just Didn’t Know How to Love You
Sometimes the problem wasn’t you—it was their capacity
We internalize rejection like a scar.
“They left, so I must be too much. Too needy. Too difficult.”
But love is about compatibility, not proof of worth.
And not everyone who leaves did so because you were lacking.
Sometimes, they just didn’t know how to handle your depth.
You didn’t ask for too much. You asked the wrong person.
Thank you for reading.
You’re not unlovable. You were just asking for something real.
About the Creator
Lucian
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