Reason First: Asian Doll’s Life Lessons

What Asian Doll needs to learn is that people on the outside of jail are not going to come to her rescue. After being locked up for 45 days for speeding, not having a license, and being wanted for multiple days, she is literally sitting pretty in the custody of a jail close to Atlanta, Georgia.

She may look sexy in her mugshot, but the little smirk and those lashes and in-place wig belie a criminal. She might make a career out of just updating her supporters on her exploits behind the jail walls.

For her waywardness, she ought to learn that all those people who dapped, hugged, and kissed her in the world will not be on her side on the inside. She might not even get any visitors. She’ll get few, most likely, but not many. When someone of stature goes to the big house, the slammer, the joint, they immediately expect a cavalcade of people to put money on their commissary, visit with them, even conjugally sometimes.

In reality, people are using their good sense and allowing the person in jail or prison to reflect on their actions and come out of the situation changed for the better. Asian Doll is too high on the line with over four million Instagram followers. There is too much money at stake for her to be involved in little cases like this. Now, if she were doing a stretch, then that would be cause for concern by her manager, record executives, and A&Rs, among other people in her nucleus.

If she reaps any education from this experience, let it be that she has to recognize that even with all those followers, none of them are going to come to her aid. Sure, they’ll post messages of encouragement but not one of them will be abetting her for her crimes.

In the days she will spend serving out her sentence, she will be preparing to tell off, cut off, or dismiss those people who she expected would drop everything to rescue her. What she ought to understand is that the crime means you have to own up and commit yourself to paying your debt to society.

If you don’t want to have your lips poked out in jail, waiting on someone to save the day, make sure you have your license and that you don’t speed. This is going to be a way for Asian Doll to learn a valuable lesson in human behavior.

People will expect her to stay put for however long the State sees fit in keeping her there. When folks don’t show up to give her combs and brushes to keep that wig in place; when that makeup starts to run, she’s going to really taste the cold reality and see herself for what she is: a criminal.

Despite whatever actions that people may have displayed or the words that dribbled from their mouths, the fact remains that she is by herself in this situation. Asian Doll is going to have to do for self on this occasion. All of the primping and prepping her for shows and securing deals is currently on hold during this brief encounter with the jail system.

If she is wise, Asia Doll will look at those people who smiled and wished well and didn’t show support in jail as respectful and law abiding citizens. She ought to realize that her only way to fight through this is in knowing that no one owes her anything. That she is locked up for her own actions and that to keep from going insane, she ought to study history and philosophy to see the true nature of man.