Zequio Olmedo
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" It's the spirit that wants to acheive, it's the ego that wants to compete. A concept that touches on both sides of the page. Together they make one, whithout one another there would'nt be the other. Neither are considered to be good or bad but very essential when it comes to relationships. The yin- yang relationships depicts the everlasting dance between opposites. The differences & similarities between them, us, everybody, everything. Not so different, together they paint the bigger picture. An image that everybody feels & knows, the collective. What makes us human, our senses perhaps, or maybe the fact that we can feel pain. Everyone feels pain, happiness, pressure & so on. Point is were all so similar & so different at the same time. Why would we ever focus on the differences if were trying to build something as a team. Focusing on our strengths could help us improve our habits and in return we see friendship, companionship, a stranger we never knew we'd love so much. Loving someone unconditionaly is acceptance for one another, loving them at theyre lowest & highest. Being there when they really need you, you know. The feeling when you have someone you can turn to and talk about your deepst thoughs. Those thoughts you don't really share with just anyone. Trust, loyalty, mindfulness are just a few things we all seek in our partner. It's more than essential for a relationship to thrive. Theyre just like building blocks to a beautiful bond with one another. Communication too you know, expressing yourself to your fullest. Listening to what they have to say. To be fully present! Seeing eachother as your highest selves! Talking about all those things floating on your head is more than just decompression, it's opening your heart & soul to you loved one. Things become more clear, goals, desires & so on. A " you water me I water you " type of relationship, that" I got the food, you go put the clothes in to wash " kind of support. Theres nothing more to ask for really when you have that kind of relationship, you know. Its the small things that matter, of course, we all have most likley have heard this so many times. It's definitely true, when you think of your partner you think about the way they laugh, smile, & snore at night. Who would have thought you would fall in love with someone you never really new in the first place. We bring memories to life, we give everything meaning, why not love to the fullest without fear. Love one another unconditionaly. When we let oursleves be who we really are it's more comfortable for those around us, not just us. Why act like someone were not, I feel like weve all had times where we found ourselves dimming our light because it was too much for others to appreciate. Then there's also those friends that support us without expectations. Friends who would still be there when you have no money or maybe your going through a rough patch. I try my best to be the person I really needed as a kid because I know how it feels to be in a low position. Although were all exactly where we need to be at the moment, nobody said you don't have a choice in life. We can do whatever we want, and embark in any journey we'd like. Free will, being free to express ourselves, showing our friends and family our true colors. Our true intentions, maybe with your partner you might go on a trip. You might have just met your partner a month ago but they love you. So many beautiful things that can happen simply because we decide that we deserve it. We have to be the artists not want to be it. Simply approve yourself, don't seek outside validation and expect to have confidence when you don't have a crowd surrounding you. It all comes from inside, strsight from source. Self knowledge, self love, it all begins with yourself. The way you see life, it's totally up to us, we can shape our reality in which ever way we'd like. It's our birth right, it's our destiny to be who we really wanna be. Who were really meant to be. Young, wild, & free beautiful divine beings.
By Zequio Olmedo5 years ago in Humans
Solitude
" It's the spirit that wants to acheive, it's the ego that wants to compete. We all need some quiet time, or at least some alone time you could say. We should fill our cups up first you know, it's not being selfish, its being selfless. If we can't love oursleves, were very much not capable of loving someone else. If that makes sense, well it does but you know I just wanted to say that lol. We really shouldn't be depending on anyone or anything to make us happy in life. That's always been in our own hands. That makes us the creators, you yourself have the paint brush in your hand. The canvas is there, all the tools and ingredients to manifest what youve been looking for. The things that spark joy in your day to day life. Those beautiful, oh hold up i'm running off topic again let's slow down lmaoo. You get the point though, sometimes our minds might get off track but our heart knows the way, sit in silence in listen to what your soul has to say. We call it integrity for a reason, when your alone, that's when your your real self. I mean of course you can be yourself when your around other people. When your alone however, you have no other influences around you, no suggestions, no questions, it's just you. When were around others well personally, I find myself a lot more open and receptive to my peers. Maybe if were working on some sort of project they might suggest an idea. Where as if I was alone I simply wouldn't. Being in solitude is great in so many ways, but it's definitely not the same as being with you family & friends you know. We hold memories close to our hearts, were creatures full of wonders. Reflecting eachothers insecurities, our beautiful angles, co-existing in harmony. Love is a powerful word and most definitely a power thing. When we do things with love, things seem to work out. With pure intention and insight we can accomplish so many beautiful things. Not just materialism but something far more than that. Sacred things you can't see but you can feel, can faith move mountains? The answer is a big old yes, we are capable of doing anything we set our minds to do. Were all connected, always have been and always will. The world will always be full of surprises & we can't chnage the circumstances but we can alwasy change our reaction. We take our own decisions. Therefore, we can't really blame anyone for where were at, and to be honest were exactly where we need to be, divinely guided. Walking different paths bumping into eachother and walking along. Making new friends, bowling with your cousins. Life can really be beautiful, but that's perspective. You can have a few cars and a really nice house but still not feel content, or at least happy. Some of us have very little and still seem to enjoy the little things. That's what matters, the little things, we give things value. You'd most likely value a hand made bag from your parents instead of an expensive bag you bought at the mall. Or your moms food over Burger King. Theres nothing wrong with the bag from from the mall, nor Burger King. We hold some things closer to our hearts than others. It makes sense you know, the little things can make a big difference, my girl might have a funny laugh that pops up in my head everytime I think of her. Or maybe you remember your sister as being real goofy, but these are the things that we love them for. We all love spending time alone, and that's awesome, but being unified living together peacefully enjoying the beautiful sacred moments, is beyond fear & hate. Theres not really good and bad it's just helpful in a diffrent way or not helpful in some ways. Everything has it's pro and cons, similar to the yin- yang but the yin-yang actually flows together and both fishes swim in harmony dancing in eternity. So many colors, without one there would'nt be the other. It's true, if not you would'nt be able to mix colors and get a different one right. Alright let me not go on too long about this, it's just what was on my mind at the moment. I felt like decompressing a little so I typed this up, hope you enjoy it whoever reads it thank you . So yea recap solitude is very essential & so is socialising. Much love & light!
By Zequio Olmedo5 years ago in Motivation
