Visaira Pieternella

10 signs they secretly hate you.

1. Backhanded compliments. Does this person ever follow up a compliment with if or for? “You'd be so successful if you tried harder.” “You're so good-looking for a fat person.” The chance is big that they're trying to keep you "in your place", because they don't want you to realise your worth and surround yourself with better people. 9/10 times this person actually believes you are better or have the potential to be better than they'll ever be. This person is just a weight tied to your ankle. Unfortunately this is the most common with family members.