Teela Hudak
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Teela is a Vancouver-based Sex Educator & Relationship Expert. Learn more at: https://exploresextalk.com/
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How to Have an Orgasm
Exploring sexuality tends to be a unique experience for everyone. Not only because each person has their own unique attractions and tastes but also because each person experiences sexuality differently. How to have an orgasm comes naturally to some people but it’s common for others to struggle. It is especially common for vulva people to have a harder time achieving orgasm. This can lead some people to think that there’s something wrong with them but that’s not true.
By Teela Hudak6 years ago in Filthy
Does Penis Size Matter?
Does penis size make a difference? This is one of the most asked questions about sex. Cis-gendered men, in particular, tend to worry about this particular problem. Our society gives many examples of the idea of great size as the key to masculinity and sexual prowess. It’s in much of the marketing we see, stories that are told, and the butt of jokes. This subject causes a lot of anxiety for a lot of people. The question is… should it?
By Teela Hudak6 years ago in Filthy
What is Pansexuality?
Ever heard of pansexuality? The term has gotten a lot more attention in recent years as more people have started to identify this way. Many people will trace the term gaining popularity with the start of different celebrities coming out as pansexual starting in 2015 but the term is actually a lot older than that. The word itself is rooted in Greek where “pan” translates to “all”. The term has actually been used for a long time and debated by the psychological and academic community since the early 1800s.
By Teela Hudak6 years ago in Humans
Lust or Love?
Do you have a hard time telling the difference between lust and love? It can be really easy to confuse the two. Our society is full of mixed messages about love and sexual attraction. The two concepts are often heavily interwoven. This has led many people to be confused about the nature of lust and love and think they are the same thing. We all make decisions about relationships and sexual activities based on what we feel as well as what we think and hope for those interactions.
By Teela Hudak6 years ago in Humans
Clean or Dirty?
Have you ever described yourself or someone else as “clean” when talking about sexual health? It’s really common for people to use this kind of terminology when what they really mean is that they don’t have any current sexually transmitted infections (STIs). Most people don’t think twice about using this kind of language but such terms actually contribute significantly to the stigma associated with STIs. It is part of the culture that shames people for their sexual health status and makes others afraid to get tested, communicate their status, or have open conversations about sexual health. Stigma can have a huge impact on a person’s feelings of self-worth, the spread of disease, and the marginalization of people.
By Teela Hudak6 years ago in Filthy
What is Effective Communication?
It should be no surprise that effective communication is a key element of successful and rewarding relationships. Our talking skills also serve us very well in the bedroom. It helps improve our sex lives and the level of intimacy we experience with our partner. Frustratingly, good communications skills can be hard to come by. Not everyone has them or understands why they are so important.
By Teela Hudak6 years ago in Humans
Should You Have a Clean Up Towel
Do you put any thought into what you grab to clean up after sex or masturbating? Or do you just grab the first thing that comes to hand? Selecting the right material to clean up afterward does actually make a difference. Certain types of material are better for absorbing moisture as well as reducing the risks of any bacterial infections. You shouldn’t just be rubbing any old thing onto your genitals. The skin in this area is particularly sensitive. Vulvas can be particularly sensitive to bacteria and could end up developing an infection.
By Teela Hudak6 years ago in Filthy
Should You Be a Sex-Positive Parent
Have you ever wondered if you should be a sex-positive parent? Do you have a plan on how you are going to talk to your kids about sex and intimacy? Sex-positive parenting is becoming a more popular approach to the Birds and the Bees Talk. It’s an approach that has demonstrated more success in helping teens and young adults navigate entering the dating world. We know it’s important that kids learn about sex and intimacy. The knowledge they have, or don’t have, can end up having life-altering impacts.
By Teela Hudak6 years ago in Families
The Punishing Emotional Blackmailer
Emotional blackmail can happen in a number of different ways. Different abusers have different styles and well as strategies that go with those styles. One of the most blatant styles is that of the Punisher. We are definitely not talking about the avenging comic book character but a type of abuser who uses aggressive anger, fury, and direct threats to invoke the fear, obligation, and guilt of emotional blackmail. This type of emotional blackmailer is the most obvious and easy to spot.
By Teela Hudak6 years ago in Humans
Using Gender-Neutral Language
Have you ever noticed that a lot of language anatomy isn’t very gender-inclusive? Today there is a lot more acceptance and discussion of the different gender identities that exist. As a society, we have begun to examine what do we really know about gender, sexuality, and anatomy. Historically, scientists looked at nature and only recorded what validated their base assumptions. Anything that didn’t fit into this mold was classified as “an anomaly” with no further investigation. Today many scientific fields of research are re-evaluating these “anomalies” and finding that they aren’t really one-offs and random occurrences. Nature is filled with examples of multiple sexes in nature and a variety of species that can change sex.
By Teela Hudak6 years ago in Humans
What is a UTI?
A urinary tract infection (UTI) is an infection that can happen in any part of the urinary system. It could be an infection in the kidneys, ureters, bladder, or urethra. People with vulvas are a lot more likely to experience one of these infections than someone with a penis, although it has been known to happen. These types of infections can usually be treated by antibiotics but there are also several ways to reduce the risks of getting them as well.
By Teela Hudak6 years ago in Longevity
Should You Fake an Orgasm?
Have you ever wondered if you should fake an orgasm? Or do you worry that your partner might be? Is it normal for people to fake them? The subject of fake orgasms can be a bit of a touchy one for some people. Many people feel that despite what others say, they never get a straight answer. It can be very upsetting and cause problems in a relationship. So let’s dig into the reasons people might fake an orgasm, why it can be upsetting and if it’s a good idea to do so.
By Teela Hudak6 years ago in Filthy
