Randolphe Tanoguem
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Most Men Are Faking Confidence
Most men are performing a version of themselves that’s slowly killing them. They’ve mastered the art of appearing confident, composed, in control — but inside, they’re anxious, angry, or numb. Not because they’re broken. Not because they’re weak. But because no one ever taught them how to love themselves.
By Randolphe Tanoguem3 months ago in Motivation
Nobody Tells You This Truth About Women’s Love, Respect
Nobody tells you this, but here’s the truth: the more a woman thinks she needs you, the more she loves you. The moment she believes you need her, her love starts dying. She wants your obsession, but not your dependence. She craves to be useful to your life, not to carry it. And that distinction—between being wanted versus being leaned on—is the line between respect and rejection, love that grows and love that withers.
By Randolphe Tanoguem3 months ago in Motivation
Why Women Leave Wealthy Men for Men with Self-Worth
Romance isn’t dead. It’s just broke. And the biggest poverty of all isn’t financial — it’s emotional bankruptcy. This is the hidden story behind poor romantic men and the women who love them. The story isn’t really about men being poor. It’s about men who lack self-worth, self-esteem, and a sense of mission, who seek a woman’s validation like a lifeline.
By Randolphe Tanoguem3 months ago in Journal
Don’t Marry the Girl Who Wants the Wedding
Not “Do I love her?” Not “Can I afford the ring?” Not even “Will she say yes?” The real question — the one that determines whether you’ll live in a home or a battlefield — is simpler, deeper, and far more dangerous to ignore:
By Randolphe Tanoguem3 months ago in Journal
From Outsider to Essence
For as long as I can remember, I’ve carried a tension inside me that I couldn’t explain. On the outside, I could talk with people, relate to their stories, share in their laughter, even understand their struggles. And yet, deep down, I always felt… out of sync. As if I was standing half a step outside of the rhythm everyone else seemed to dance to.
By Randolphe Tanoguem4 months ago in Journal
Monetizing the Fall
There’s a specific kind of video you’ve seen a thousand times — a person crying into their phone camera, breaking down on a live stream, confessing secrets they swore they’d never share, or capturing the exact moment they get fired, dumped, or canceled. And while the moment is painful, maybe even real, it’s what happens after that reveals the game:
By Randolphe Tanoguem4 months ago in Journal
