Fred the Fish
When you move into a new stage of life there is a tendency to want to tie up the loose ends; say your final goodbyes, bury the hatchet, and have a huge celebration; to have everything fixed like a neat straight line drawn under it. Most of us learned long ago that life never works out that way, sometimes people leave without saying goodbye, sometimes friendships end with a fight, and sometimes what you're leaving isn’t worth celebrating. A lot of it is out of our control and yet you can still persist.