Nicole Higginbotham-Hogue
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Nicole Higginbotham-Hogue is a Midwest-based author known for her captivating lesbian romance novels, compelling mysteries, and heart-pounding thrillers. To find out more, visit: http://www.nicolehigginbothamhogue.com
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Money for Two
If you just moved into a house or apartment with your partner, then you might have begun to realize that you need to get your finances together. Both of you have probably been working on separate budgets at this point, not having to think about anyone else’s needs but your own. However, buying that extra pop at the gas station or that burger from the fast food restaurant might be an issue now as you both have to work together to make sure that you can pay your bills and for the basic needs.
By Nicole Higginbotham-Hogue6 days ago in Humans
Work and Pleasure
After you and your partner tackle your budget, you might realize that the chores that you have in your new place have increased. You might have been used to living on your own and having your own clean-up routine, but now that you share your space with another person, the work to keep your home clean might have doubled and each of you might require a little more when it comes to housekeeping. Therefore, it is important for the two of you to sit down and communicate about these tasks. You want to make sure that you are both on the same page with what needs to be done, and if there are extra tasks that one person requires that the other doesn’t, then you need to find a way to compromise on those.
By Nicole Higginbotham-Hogue6 days ago in Humans
Living Together
Living together might be feeling a little more normal at this point. The two of you are probably used to each other’s habits or at least know what to expect, and you are probably going about your regular routine of tackling your responsibilities. However, with this new move, there is a potential that the two of you might have taken on extra hours, and the time that you have with each other might not be as much as you thought you would have.
By Nicole Higginbotham-Hogue6 days ago in Humans
Fear Doesn't Keep Dates
Dating can be a difficult process for anyone. It can be difficult to figure out how to find the person that you are looking for and what standards you should have when meeting new people. However, this process doesn't have to be stressful. The point of dating is to have fun and find the person that adds to your life, so why let all of your worries and fears take hold of you?
By Nicole Higginbotham-Hogue6 days ago in Humans
Finding Love
Now you have decided that you are ready to date, and you are trying to find somewhere to meet that special person. So, where do you go? How do you find that person that will sweep you off your feet? The answers to these questions won't be the same for everyone.
By Nicole Higginbotham-Hogue6 days ago in Humans
Communication is Key
Once you find someone that you are interested in, take the time to get to know him or her. Talk about the things that you want out of life and see if your goals line up. Also, talk about your expectations when it comes to a relationship. Let the other person know what you want to get out of a relationship and listen to what he or she wants as well. See if your wants and needs line up. If they don't, consider whether moving forward with the other person would be an additive to your life or if it would bring you farther away from the things that you want and need.
By Nicole Higginbotham-Hogue6 days ago in Humans
The Fam and the Date
At some point in your relationship, your partner might want you to meet his or her family. This might be a nerve racking situation, because you might be afraid that his or her family won’t like you, or you might even be afraid that his or her family will judge you. Nevertheless, if your partner is close to his or her family, then it is important to go through with this step. Getting to know his or her family might help you learn about how your partner grew up. It might offer an explanation as to some of the things that shaped his or her personality, and it might allow you to find other people that know your partner better than you do in some ways.
By Nicole Higginbotham-Hogue6 days ago in Humans
Supporting New Hobbies
Though you and your partner might have a lot in common, there might be times when your partner wants to try a new hobby or experience with you by his or her side. Try to be optimistic when this happens and do your best to open your mind so you and your partner can bond over this new adventure. Of course, there are certain situations when you might not be able to join him or her, like if the experience entails something that goes against your religious beliefs or political views, but hopefully by the time you are together, you understand this about each other.
By Nicole Higginbotham-Hogue6 days ago in Confessions
Small Things Add Up
If you find that you still need to add more money to your income in order to get by, then consider finding small ways to do this. If you are skilled at a trade like cleaning houses or performing small household repairs, you could always sign up for an app that allows people to contract you to do these jobs. This could help you make extra money in your spare time without having to follow a regular schedule.
By Nicole Higginbotham-Hogue6 days ago in Journal
Imagination is the Key
Some of the costs that you encounter might be due to your entertainment choices. Going out to dinner or having a drink at the local bar might be eating away at your budget. So, what can you do to lower your entertainment costs without sacrificing time away from your friends? How do you save money while still having fun? Simple. Pick different activities.
By Nicole Higginbotham-Hogue6 days ago in Journal
Add Up Your Income
If you watch television or scroll through the Internet, then you might see advertisements from some of the local stores that you shop at. Paying attention to these advertisements and notating the prices on the items that you usually buy might also help you when it comes to saving money. Research can be a huge help when it comes to keeping the money in your wallet. You just need to know what you are researching and why.
By Nicole Higginbotham-Hogue6 days ago in Journal
Ignore Your Impulses
Recognizing impulse buys and displays that are set up in order to get you to buy something might also save you money. You see, we all have a job to do. Your job might be to provide the items that your family needs to the household. The store’s job is to sell items that customers want and will buy and make money. Therefore, the store, knowing that you have to provide items to your family might creatively place items around their store in a specific way so you buy specific items that make them more money.
By Nicole Higginbotham-Hogue6 days ago in Journal
