Mitchella O Erayoma
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Writing helps me better understand myself and my experiences.
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Unveiling Shadows
A Promise of Love Samantha was an independent, intelligent woman who had always believed in the power of love. She longed for a partner who would support and cherish her, embracing the vows of marriage and building a beautiful life together. When she met Michael, she thought she had found her perfect match.
By Mitchella O Erayoma3 years ago in Fiction
The Art of Deception: Understanding Manipulation and Gaslighting
One of the most fundamental aspects of human interaction is trust. We rely on the people in our lives to be honest with us and act according to their words. When someone says one thing but does another, it can be incredibly confusing and even damaging. Unfortunately, this type of behaviour is all too common. People often say one thing and do another, and when they are confronted about it, they refuse to take responsibility for their actions. This is called manipulation, and when it is combined with an unwillingness to be held accountable, it becomes gaslighting.
By Mitchella O Erayoma3 years ago in Psyche
Empaths Standing Firm Against The Toxic Cycle
Dealing with a narcissist who has lost you can be a challenging and painful experience. Once they realize they have lost you, expect their desire factor to increase, as they only want what they cannot have. Narcissists have a gaping hole in their souls and take the forbidden fruit effect to a different level. They long for the one that got away and will use hoovering tactics to suck you back into the abusive cycle. However, be prepared in advance to save yourself from pain, drama, and trauma because there is no time limit on the narcissistic hoover. It can be even after a decade.
By Mitchella O Erayoma3 years ago in Psyche
The Intersection of Forgiveness and Self-Care: Setting Boundaries to Prioritize Your Emotional Health
Forgiveness is a powerful tool that can help us heal from past hurts and move forward with our lives. It is an act of releasing anger, resentment, and bitterness towards someone who has wronged us and freeing ourselves from the emotional burden of holding onto grudges.
By Mitchella O Erayoma3 years ago in Psyche
Embracing Emotional and Cognitive Health: The Power of Therapy and Faith
Cognitive and emotional struggles can be debilitating, leading to pain and suffering for those who experience them. While identifying and managing these struggles can be challenging, ignoring them only leads to more pain in the long run.
By Mitchella O Erayoma3 years ago in Psyche
No More Excuses: How to Reclaim Your Power and Find Healing
Leaving an abusive marriage takes tremendous courage and strength. It is a decision that no one should take lightly, but it is important to remember that it is never too late to take control of your life and break free from a situation that is causing you emotional, mental, and physical harm. Once you have made the decision to leave, it is important to focus on your own healing and recovery.
By Mitchella O Erayoma3 years ago in Psyche
The Empathy Factor: The Key to Thriving Relationships and Navigating Unsupportive Ones
Finding yourself in a relationship where your partner lacks empathy can be a challenging and isolating experience. Empathy is the ability to understand and share another person’s feelings; it is an essential component of any healthy relationship. When your partner fails to show you empathy, it can leave you feeling misunderstood, unsupported, and alone.
By Mitchella O Erayoma3 years ago in Psyche
From Hurt to Hurtful: How Unresolved Trauma Can Fuel Verbal Abuse
Being in a relationship with an abusive partner can be a traumatic and challenging experience. While physical abuse is often the first thing that comes to mind, emotional abuse can be just as damaging. This is especially true when the abuser has a history of abandonment and neglect, as they may struggle to form healthy attachments in adulthood. In this article, we will explore why victims of emotional abuse need to move on from the relationship, even if they are married, and the steps they can take to protect themselves.
By Mitchella O Erayoma3 years ago in Psyche
