Madison James

Attraction isn't a Choice

I’m sure at some stage we’ve all asked the question of a potential suitor - “so what do you look for in a guy/girl?” The more I think about it, the more this seems like a pointless question. The answer is usually a generic response of niceties like someone who’s fun, caring, affectionate, loyal, honest, blah, blah, blah. We’d all agree that these are traits that we’d probably want in a partner, but trying to provide a logical answer based on a list of adjectives for something as seemingly illogical as attraction is rudimentary at best.