Lucky Nkunda
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Build a successful marriage
Today, I would like to discuss the essential skills needed to build a successful marriage. Firstly, I want to express my gratitude to all my subscribers, and I encourage those who haven't subscribed yet to join in the conversation. We are a community dedicated to creating happy and thriving marriages. The first skill I want to emphasize is compassion. Many people wonder if compassion can be considered a skill. The answer is yes. Compassion requires intentionality. It is not something that happens by chance; rather, it stems from a genuine desire to be compassionate towards your partner. Let's define compassion: it is the ability to understand and empathize with others' suffering and the motivation to take action. When you actively cultivate compassion in your relationship, you seek to understand and address your spouse's concerns. For example, if your partner struggles with cooking on traditional stoves, you may consider purchasing a gas stove to alleviate their difficulties. Compassion is a skill that extends beyond marriage; it is valuable in all aspects of life, whether at work or in relationships with neighbors. The second skill is teamwork. Couples who do not work together will struggle to progress. The synergy created through teamwork is crucial in various settings, including the workplace and businesses. Unfortunately, many of us have grown up in environments where everyone is focused on their own tasks, even within our families. Instead of competing with our siblings, we should be collaborating to develop our homes. It is essential to replace self-sufficiency with the skill of teamwork. Working as a team allows couples to plan together, contribute to the development of their home, and effectively manage their family, including raising children and acquiring assets. Lastly, forgiveness is a vital skill in any relationship. As humans, we are prone to making mistakes. Holding onto past wrongdoings can be detrimental to a marriage. Instead, it is crucial to cultivate the skill of forgiving and forgetting. This means letting go of grudges and not dwelling on past errors. Forgiveness requires intentionality and understanding its importance in building a successful marriage. Keeping a record of your spouse's wrongdoings will only lead to trouble. True love, as mentioned in 1 Corinthians 13, does not keep a record of wrongs. It erases them, allowing for the growth of a strong relationship. In conclusion, developing skills such as compassion, teamwork, and forgiveness is essential for building a successful marriage. These skills require intentionality, understanding, and a commitment to growth. By actively cultivating these skills, couples can create a loving and thriving partnership.
By Lucky Nkunda2 years ago in Motivation
Inside Africa’s Most Mysterious Religion: Voodoo
During my recent travels, I encountered a unique phenomenon that I had never witnessed before. I came across a small group of people worldwide who follow a secretive faith called Voodoo. This religion has been linked to ceremonies involving dark magic, sorcery, and other sinister practices. Intrigued, I decided to visit a country where this mysterious religion is still active in order to comprehend why it instills such fear. According to my findings, there is a prevailing belief that Voodoo harbors a potent spirit that hovers in the atmosphere. My objective was to verify the accuracy of this assertion within a span of 48 hours.
By Lucky Nkunda2 years ago in Writers
