Harvard famously theorized that people differ in their spare time, and that a person's destiny is determined between 8 and 10 p.m
Did mediocrity choose you, or did your subconscious choose mediocrity?
Most of the time in work and in life, we want to be somebody, like even in the village, we want others to respect us, we want others to think we are great. However, it is a pity that we find that no matter how strong our subjective desire is, we are still mediocre in the end and do not become the kind of people we imagined. What is the reason? Based on my short life experience and the information I get from reading books, I believe that this is not just due to external causes and birth defects, but that we subconsciously choose mediocrity. This is paradoxical. On the surface, we don't want mediocrity, but why do we subconsciously choose mediocrity?