Lena Bailey
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Georgia born writer. Specializing in dating and true crime
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Ouija Board Rules and Such #1
If you don't know what an Ouija board is, it's a board used to communicate with spirits. It has letters, numbers, and a few words. It has a pointer piece called a planchet. It's also sold as a toy but it's anything but a toy. So it has a few rules that I'll explain as we go.
By Lena Bailey6 years ago in Horror
My BDSM Horror Story
There is a trigger warning on this post so if you are sensitive to BDSM sex, assault and abuse this post is not for you. So this happened a few years ago and I was so stupid for not ending things sooner. I was on a certain site (I don't think they want this kind of publicity) and I was posting ads looking for a dom. A few days later after posting my first ad, I got a message from an older guy telling me he was looking for a sub type for his sub. I was intrigued so I messaged him back. We all got on a private group chat on Kik to talk to each other. I don't remember how soon this came out but at some point I found out that the guy was married but had this sub on the side of his marriage. I should have left at that point because I reasoned it away by saying his wife knew so it was ok. I just didn't like that she told me not him. So, I went on like normal and agreed to meet them. I have no problem with married people dating as long as their spouse knows and is ok with it.
By Lena Bailey6 years ago in Filthy
The Black Eye Children
So the black eye children are a group of kids who have black eyeballs or black irises, depends on who you talk to. They come to your home or car and they will ask for help. They will either ask for a ride, to come in, or to use your phone or something similar. The stories always involve asking for help in some way. If you say no, they insist and force you to help. When you encounter one you will feel uneasy, then when they start to force you to help, you feel yourself starting to help but then you catch yourself. No one knows what happens if you help; in all stories about them people say no. They are also seen panhandling or hitchhiking. They were even spotted on the news. There was also someone who was using a drone and spotted one in a forest.
By Lena Bailey6 years ago in Horror
Consent
In this day and age, we need to relearn what consent is. In the Netflix show 13 Reasons Why, one of the main characters (Bryce) said: "I could tell she wanted it and she didn't exactly say no." That's such a young guy way of thinking, and some men never grow out of that. They can't wrap their minds around why women don't want sex with them all the time. Men also don't understand why women don't want sex to be the focus of a relationship. You will not die if you don't get sex when you want it. Not every girl is going to want you... shocker, I know. Now I know not all men think the way I just described. There are decent men out there. It's not just men that need to learn about consent either, we all do.
By Lena Bailey6 years ago in Viva
My Assault Story
It happened 5 or 6 years ago. I just got out of my first relationship and I went back on a popular dating site (I won't name it because it may not want to be associated with this). About a week later I started to talk to a guy who lived about 30 or 45 minutes away. This new guy and I met a few days later. It went well but at the end of the night he touched me and I didn't stop him. I think that's where the ball started to roll in his head about what he would do next to me. So we saw each other the next day at a park near my house. At dark we sat in my car talking. One of the last things he did was touch me down there; I wanted it so that wasn't the assault. This is going to sound weird, but I think when I consented he thought my consent overrode the times I would say no. At this point it all seemed normal. I felt like I found a good guy.
By Lena Bailey6 years ago in Viva
Gender Identities
There are so many genders than we once realized, and people tend to judge. People who aren't cisgender are normal and deserve love and acceptance. Gender and sexuality are more fluid these days, they're just not understood or talked about openly for fear of judgment. I'm writing this blog to educate those who are uneducated or curious (or both). So let's get started.
By Lena Bailey6 years ago in Humans
Sexuality & Romantic Attraction
In sexuality and romantic attraction, there is no such thing as abnormal; this is normal. For those who are new to the world of sexuality and romantic attraction, welcome. I'll be nice and easy to understand, I hope. The difference between romantic and sexual attraction is that sexual attraction or sexuality is more primal; who draws you in appearance-wise. Romantic attraction is who draws you in personality-wise and who you see having a relationship with. We also can't assume that there is just straight, gay, and bi. People have evolved, so let's dive in.
By Lena Bailey6 years ago in Filthy
Lactation Fetish/Adult Nursing
So some men like the idea of seeing the woman they are with lactate, and some men even like tasting it and drinking it. I once had a request from a man to force lactation so that I can breastfeed him. Yep, this is a real fetish and a real request; that's why I'm writing about it to tell you how to do it and what else you need to know.
By Lena Bailey6 years ago in Filthy
The 27 Club
"The 27 Club" is a group of famous people who have died at the age of 27. The causes of death can range from unknown to overdose and suicide. This phenomenon started on January 17, 1892, with the death of Alexandre Levy. He was a composer, pianist, and conductor, and his death was of unknown causes. Experts do say that younger people who are famous have a higher risk of dying young, but that does not limit the age of death to 27. The reason younger celebrities are at higher risk of dying young is that they are more likely to take part in risky behaviors (driving fast, smoking, drinking, and doing drugs). This group has been the subject of movies, magazines articles, novels, several exhibitions, and stage plays.
By Lena Bailey6 years ago in Beat
Being Involved with Married People
Recently, I heard a woman on the radio talking about how she was involved with a married man for three years. He had one kid and was a high powered professional in Atlanta. The problem was that he gave her the typical lines people tell the other man or woman. He said, "I'll leave my wife for you and we can build a life together." She was hurt that he didn't leave his wife. She even stalked the wife! She wanted to destroy him in the newspapers. She kept saying that she took care of him and she was basically the wife.
By Lena Bailey6 years ago in Humans
