Kay Schaller

Things You Say To Spite The Gay

You can do a lot with a blog. You can share tips, you can spread your creativity, you can just post random things or get social and political if you want to make more of an impact. And I... Will do something in between. On one hand, the posts I am about to write will be inspired by personal experience but also I do hope to use them to spread awareness and hopefully add a bit of compassion and understanding to these really wild and confusing times. Or at least try. Anyway, this is a series of posts about annoying, frustrating, confusing and sometimes outright insensitive things we, members of the LGBT+ community hear every day. Posts about why exactly we react to those things the way we do and why you should probably give it another think through before saying them. I do hope that you, fellow gays out there will find this relatable and you, wonderful allies will gain some useful insights from it. And now without any further ado, let us proceed with the phrase of the week.