Hailey Sadie
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How To Change Yourself To Save Your Marriage (How To Change Yourself For Your Husband / Wife)
I have some specific marriage help laid out below for you to transform your marriage but I wonder how much you really want to change. A lot of us say we want a better marriage but for some reason don't want to make changes to get what we want. Often times we want our spouse to change and thus think that's the best chance of transforming the marriage.
By Hailey Sadie4 years ago in Humans
Unhappy Marriage With Kids (Should We Stay Together For The Sake Of The Children?)
Many parents ask this question. People often believe that divorce is extremely damaging to children and they stay together in an otherwise unhappy marriage as a result. However, this is not necessarily the best thing for children. My clients tell me all of the time that they stayed together or believe they should stay together for the sake of their children. I tell them that children do not need married parents - they need happy and healthy parents
By Hailey Sadie4 years ago in Humans
I Can't Talk To My Husband About My Feelings (How To Discuss Relationship Problems Without Fighting)
Communication covers so many things that it seems impossible not to do, although there are more than a few who manage it. Communication seems to change when you get married, gone are those happy days when you could talk for hours about your hopes, dreams and putting the world to rights. Things seem to automatically become more serious, more grown up once you get married. Personally whilst I concede that whilst we all get older, you do not have to grow older. Communication is vital, it holds the two of you together, it helps you to share your lives, wants and needs. Communication lets your partner understand you and you them. If you do not communicate, how will you know your partners wants and needs, how will you be able to give the the help, support and comfort that they need. Without communication you have nothing to tie you together so you will drift apart. Learning how to communicate with your spouse is not always easy, but if you want your marriage to survive then you have to learn. If you can learn to talk freely and easily to one another about your cares and concerns then you can deal with anything.
By Hailey Sadie4 years ago in Humans
Does Marriage Counseling Really Work (What Is The Success Rate For Marriage Counseling)
Do you feel like your marriage has reached a point that professional help is your only recourse? Have you every wondered if marriage counselors possess the power to fix the marital problems that you and your spouse cannot? How effective is marriage counseling, really? A lot of married couples resort to it when they feel that they have already exhausted all the possible ways of reaching a solution to the problems of matrimony. And while marriage counseling does fix certain problems, there are still some incidents wherein it seems to be more of a harm then help. Like most professional and methodological approaches to reaching a solution, marriage counseling has its own set of pros and cons. Of course, majority opinion is that you won't really know the answer to the question "does marriage counseling work" unless you yourself would try it out. However, marriage counseling can be expensive and it might not fit the kind of lifestyle you and your spouse you have. Some husbands do not believe in counseling, and the wives might be persistent. In this case, having a marriage counselor becomes another problem for the couple to face. Below is a simple take on the apparent pros and cons of marriage counseling.
By Hailey Sadie4 years ago in Humans
How To Calm Down My Angry Husband (Why Is My Husband So Mad At Me All The Time)
I am married to a man whom I sometimes refer to as "My Diva Man." He is a person who likes things a certain way. He can be quite demanding at times. However, he is also a wonderful husband who works very hard so that I can be home with our two beautiful daughters every day.
By Hailey Sadie4 years ago in Humans
How To Fix A Marriage When One Is Unhappy (What To Do If You Are Unhappy In A Marriage)
People have a tendency to become habitual thinkers. They think the way they have always thought and think nothing of it. You might be thinking the capacity to think the same things all the time would be reserved for old people. Not at all! Everyone has the ability to become a habitual thinker. Not only is it possible to become locked in a mode of thinking, it is entirely possible and probable that habitual feeling is the natural partner of habitual thinking. If your marriage is in trouble, part of the problem is that you have learned to think a certain way and you have become accustomed to feeling a certain way. Give yourself this little test. What is the first thing you think about in the morning when you first open your eyes. Now think about the first feeling you experience in the morning. Those two components are closely linked. If you do not purposely choose to think differently, your brain will continue to have those same thoughts and your emotions will respond with the same feelings every morning when you awake.
By Hailey Sadie4 years ago in Humans
My Husband Is Going To Leave Me (What To Do If You Think Your Husband Is Leaving You)
What do you do when your husband wants to leave you, but you want to save your marriage? This can be one tough decision. On one hand, you love your husband. Yes, you know there are problems in the marriage, but you don't think ending the marriage and breaking up the family is the answer. On the other hand, your husband wants to leave you and any kind of relationship requires two people to commit.... one wants out, he or she is out. So, what do you do?
By Hailey Sadie4 years ago in Humans
